Dear Friend.
I am glad you made it to my website, just wish we could have met under better circumstances. Since you found your way to my site, I know that you are probably going though a hard time because of a recent break up.
My name is Stephanie L. Johnsson, and I’m here to tell you that there are still good hopes for you to almost instantly make what you’re only dreaming of come true, to get your ex back.
If you think this sounds like hype and nonsense or just plain crazy, then you should know that your situation is certainly not an impossible one. Just give a little thought to all the couples that actually DO get back together again after leaving each other, even when one of them was having an affair.
You see, a lot of people, including myself, have been in your EXACT situation. I lost the love of my life and it broke my heart, so I was looking left and right for a solution to get back together with him. In this process I found a bunch of so called solutions that apparently did not work in any other way than making me waste my money, time and energy.
I knew then as I know now, that after a painful breakup the smartest thing to do is to get some professional advice, but this involves a big problem… most relationship counseling is actually going to charge about $100-$200 an hour, and I absolutely could not afford that.
Then one day when I was surfing the net I stumbled on to “Second Chance Romance” by Jason Hicks. I was sceptical, but I decided to read his message on his site. What really surprised me was that it felt like Jason was talking directly to ME, just like if we were having a face to face conversation….and how could he know so much about my specific situation?
I was CURIOUS to say the least…
Jason had convinced me that he could help, so I invested $40 in his course and started to go through it. His intelligent (yes, he’s real smart!) and down to earth advice and powerfully step-by-step instructions slowly boosted my self confidence more than I thought possible, and I began to understand exactly what actions I needed to take (and which NOT to take) to win back my ex boyfriend’s heart. It certainly worked out very well for me because we got back together again exactly two months after I started my course!
It was an incredible feeling, I can tell you that much. My boyfriend and I are clearly happier together than we have ever been, and now I am well aware of every one of those small adjustments needed to be made to easily keep our relationship strong, safe and at the same time fresh and exciting.
Second Chance Romance simply provided me with so much POWERFUL insight, knowledge and STEP-BY-STEP guidence, that I was able to save my relationship even though I initially thought it was over for good.
Also, I was pleasantly surprised when I saw all the different bonuses included in the package. One of the bonus ebooks, was a 22 page report filled with “Real Life Scenarios” you might face when trying to get your ex back. Basically, this report shows examples of different dialogue you can use when talking to your ex. This is great because one of the toughest things for us is to try and come up with something to say that will actually work.
You know, clearly there is a ton of existing experience and knowledge about the actual UNDERLYING motives and reasons why an ex will choose to take back his or her former partner after a breakup.
When you become aware of these aspects, you suddenly become able to view both your relationship with your ex and your breakup, from a NEW and completely different perspective.
So, do not worry, you only need to take the RIGHT STEPS in order to learn what went wrong, and once you have done this you will easily be able to find the RIGHT SOLUTION to your problem.
Second Chance Romance provides you with an easy to follow, straightforward action plan that takes you by the hand and walks you through the entire process of getting your ex back.
The guide goes into great detail on several different methods, techniques and approaches you can use to win your ex back, included some of the common methods such as the “No Contact Rule”, but for the most part they’re never before seen methods…that actually do work. The final section of the book talks about how to make your relationship stronger than it ever was before. This is one of the most important parts that so many books leave out. I mean, it’s great to win your ex back, but how do you keep it from happening again? Well, that’s exactly what this section talks about.
Second Chance Romance doesn’t repeat what’s been said before. I think most people have reservations about how effective it can be since it only cost $40. Most people believe that the more you pay, the more info or help you are going to receive.
Jason Hicks does have two things that you need to be successful in this field: EXPERIENCE and the DESIRE to help people. He is selling Second Chance Romance because no one would take him seriously if he just gave it away. He’s been there and done that and more importantly, he’s helped others get their relationships and lives back together.
The only “negative” things I can say about Second Chance Romance is the lack of video. I usually prefer to have some video advice to go along with the book. Second Chance Romance doesn’t have any videos but neither do most of the competitor’s, so it’s not that big of a deal. Also, when I started to go through the guide, I was literary forced to totally rethink my whole situation and make kind of a “reset” of my mind. Doing this was particularly hard the first couple of days, but when all this new knowledge finally began to sink in…
WOW, what an EYE OPENER it was for me!
When it comes to customer support, they appear to be very quick to respond and also helpful. I only contacted support one time since I had some trouble downloading the files at first, and they quickly helped me fix it.
To conclude, I’d say that Second Chance Romance is worth it. Now I know this review might seem kind of biased, but if you happen to purchase it you’ll see why. It truly is the ultimate system to win your ex back. If you truly love someone, you probably would pay any dollar amount if it meant having him or her back right? So dishing out a measly $40 bucks to win back the love of your life is pretty close to a No-Brainer!
One warning:
The tactics you are about to learn here are controversial:
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Get instant relief from your heartache
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See the exact clues your ex leaves that tell you he/she still cares for you
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Instantly neutralize that other woman or man’s influence over your ex
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Discover how you can give your ex what he/she desires most of all
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Know exactly when to apologize and when not to
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Easily brake the old pattern with him/her and start fresh
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Naturally trick your ex into thinking you are still a couple
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Learn the secrets to what to do and say to get your ex back on a date
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Recapture the romance from when you were madly in love
Step 1: Do Some Self-Reflection
The first thing you need to do is to ask yourself some questions that can be crucial in order to fix the problem. These are very important questions that will help you figure out the BEST way to get your ex back.
1. Ask yourself if it is worth so much worry the reason of the break up between you and your ex. Is it really important?
2. Can you make things any different? Is it worth continuing with the argument or is it much better to forget about it and continue with your lives?
3. Is this the right time to argue about this matter?
4. Is the cause of the argument worth all the trouble in the first place?
If you can answer any of the questions mentioned above with a “no” then there is no point in continuing with the argument. The best option is to let it go. Many arguments of huge dimensions and break ups can be avoided if this simple rule is followed. You will be surprised to see how many break ups can be AVOIDED if people don’t get involved in worthless arguments and learn to leave them behind and move on.
Step 2: Stop Worrying About What Others Think of You
The next step you must take in order to get your ex back is to stop worrying about the image you project to other people. It really DOES NOT matter what other people think of you. The only important thing is to be yourself, but this can only be achieved once you stop having concerns about what people think of you. Other people, and especially your ex will then be able to see the real you.
Step 3: Patience Pays When You Want to Get Your Ex Back
An important step in your process to get your ex back is to learn how to put some emotional and mental distance between the two of you. This may seem to be a contradiction, but it is really important to get yourself out of the problem so you can free yourself from the stress the break up causes.
Once you are more relaxed and at the same time you have given your ex the time to relax as well, it is the time to talk. You may be able to get more positive results once you are both feeling much better.
Distance does not mean becoming a complete stranger, but to keep in touch with positive conversation without getting emotionally involved.
With clear heads it is much easier to analyze the situation, have a talk about the problems that may have caused the break up and look for a SOLUTION.
You and your ex will need to talk things through in order to UNDO the break up. The first thing you must learn is that this process will require lots of patience and you need to be able to have tons of it.
The process of getting your ex back takes time so DON’T RUSH. If you see your ex on the street, say hello, make eye contact and continue your way. Try this for some time and then you will be able to move onto the next step.
Step 4: Don’t Make it Too Easy
At this point you are ready to start initiating SHORT conversations with your ex whenever possible. Remember to keep conversations short and about trivial things. Don’t go into too many details about yourself, try to create a MYSTERIOUS environment around you so you can increase his or her interest in you.
If you meet your ex by chance at a party with friends, don’t center your attention on him or her. Make your ex feel that your world is not only him or her, but also your friends and why not, a flirt.
Step 5: Work at Looking Good
Work on your APPEARANCE. Try to look at your best so he or she can feel attracted to you once again. Besides, looking great will give you self-confidence. At the same time don’t be shy and compliment your ex if he or she is looking good and attractive.
If you have the chance when you talk to him or her, bring back all the good memories of your past relationship. Spend time with your ex remembering all the GOOD things that happened to you when you two were a couple and enjoy these moments with him or her.
This can make your ex realize that he or she may be missing all those good times together.
Be not only a friend of your ex, but the BEST friend at this moment in his or her life. This is difficult as you may find your feelings wanting to get involved, but be patient. If you show that your friendship is not focused on trying to move into a romantic relationship, your ex will open his or her heart to you and if your ex wants to be back with you, he or she will let you know eventually.
Simply put, if you do the RIGHT things and take the RIGHT steps, and more importantly don’t go about it the wrong way, your chances for getting back together with your ex increase DRAMATICALLY.
I know I’m a LIVING PROOF of just that!
If you need to get an ex back, then read on for a number of handy tips that will assist you win back the sweetheart of your life. Breaking up may perhaps be one of the most awful things that can happen to you, but these events are learning situations which can also help you become mature and responsible by being able to cope stress in life as well as your emotions.
Therefore, one of the first few things to resolve is to control yourself and your emotions. If the cause for the current ending with your past lover is due to some mix-up which led to a quarrel and anger, then it is about time to discover humility by making an admission of guilt for your actions. It doesn’t make a difference if it is your fault or not; every now and then you need to compromise in order to retain your communication with your partner. Thus, remember the two C’s , Compromise and Communication.
One more handy tip to get an ex back is to grant your ex-partner the breathing space that he or she wanted. In other words, break off all forms of contact with her right away and do that for the next several days or perhaps a week. This will provide both of you ample time to think over your relationship if both of you are really intended for each other. If you spent nearly all of your times together in the past, your absence now and in the next several days will undeniably make her miss you and long for your presence and company. The moment she will feels that, she might start to communicate with you; giving you the option to date her again.
That will lead you to the next step to get an ex back; and that is to encourage her again. The fact that she fell in love with you the first time around, making her love you ought to come easier for you in view of the fact that you have already known her, and her strengths and weaknesses. Think of the ways that made her fall for you and said yes to your relationship; do those things and grow to be the person she fell in love with. In addition, make yourself appealing to her; if used to like the way you look then put on some neat clothes that will make you fine-looking or beautiful. If one of the things she likes from you is your romantic words, then send her those expressive and passionate letters. These things will make her fall in love with you again.
There are still many things you can do to get an ex back; the few informative tips mentioned herein are very valuable and could just be enough to win back the love of your life.
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This is really great advice for getting an ex back. Leigh’s extra tips are also very useful. I shall come back here next time I’m in that situation.
Hi Stephanie, thanks for your tips. I especially like #4 – don’t make it too easy! It’s so true. I wanted to get back with an ex once and she wasn’t up for it at all. By backing off a bit and showing her what she was missing, she actually started chasing me again! The harder I made it, the more she wanted me back. Strange, but true
I impressed with your great post with nice contents…….
Man, i gotta say, i would have never believed that this stuff really works till one my friends bought one of these ‘get your ex back’ books, read it, applied its principles and she just came back. It was crazy, i’m still amazed. So, mad props.
Im a guy who left his girl beacuse I didn’t know what to do or say about an emotional event that took place in my womans life! Now after 2 months I tried to go back to her and she’s met some guy with money but less than average outer apperance.
I never stopped loving her and really wasn’t gone the 2 months I would come by now and again to bring her food and medicine when she got sick and yes we did have occasional sex but I would never stay over…We were together for 4 yrs..My question is women are emtional guys are physical OK
did i let to much time pass before trying to come back???
I just needed time to think alone at home or movies or fishing …that’s all I ever did and thought of her the whole time…Now she has certain financial issues re:her home and this new guy has a fair amount of money which he uses to his advantage??? Is this hopeless or do I need to apply the no contact rule for 4 wks and see what happens…
I have met her at her work and ate lunch togther where we shared a warm embrace and sensual kisses mixed with a gaze into eachothers eyes that would led any partner to believe there’s still alot of feelings there….she is afraid I will hurt her again and doesn’t want to get hurt again…??
Maybe I’ve lost her?????
This is really great advice for getting an ex back. I love it much. I’m in that situation.
i want my ex back but we have been split up 2 and a half month now and he has got a new gf we currently don’t have any contact is it too late to try and win him back or cud i still do it???? we were recently on a night out with mutual friends and he kept looking at me but wen he saw me looking he would look a the ground does he still care or is this normal behavior?
My boyfriend broke up with me couple of months ago. He’s slowly changing without any reason. I do love him but if he don’t love me anymore, then why force myself? But in a other hand I still want him in my life. I don’t see him with other girl, does it mean he still loves me?
Good advice alround. This problem has made me depressed.
my boyfriend broke up with me after we reconciled a few months ago. i want us to get back together, but i don’t know if he’s even still interested. i have been trying not to cntact him and ususally it only works for a few says at time when he will call, text or email. i’ve responded once or twice but always regretted it because i never hear an answer to my response. last time we actually talked he said he wanted us to stay in contact and hang out, but isn’t that just a cop out?
What a great site. I wanted to mention that tip #3, about being patient is one of hardest things to do, but it is probably one of the most important things.
I think that when things are really going wrong, we have this urgency about getting is fixed right now so we sometimes do stupid things to ruin our relationships.
Getting your ex back can be very difficult. It all depends on why you broke up in the first place. If you had a bad argument you can probably patch things up rather quickly. However, If your partner cheated on you, you need to ask yourself if you want to be with someone who is untrustworthy.
Some of these tips are great, but one thing i should is to NEVER any under circumstances be friends with your ex.Theres so such a thing as being friends with an ex, the friendship dies once either of you start dating. And the more close you are to him as a friend, the more hell see you as one, because you being there for him, will only show that he can still have you but just not be committed and hell only want to keep the break up longer. What you must do is lose ALL contact with the ex for at least 1month or 6 weeks, or even a little less, make HIM miss YOU. He will certainly come chasing back if he realizes what he could be possibly losing forever.
Steps 3 and 4 are the most important. When you breakup your emotions are running high. You have to step back from the situation in order to start the healing process. Let’s face it, when you break up your heart is broken and if you don’t take time to heal then you will bring all that heart back to the relationship should you get back together.
Second you must not make it too easy for him/her. If you make it too easy then you are asking for a second breakup. You did not give your partner a chance to realize what he/she is missing by not having you a part of his/her life. I do think it is important not to drop off the face of the map. You have to keep yourself visible. Human emotions are tricky, sometimes when one has loved and lost one will try to find a quick replacement just to not deal with the pain.
Love yourself first and that leave room for others to love you.
I was seeking advices to win back my wife..Thanks Stephanie for recommending this book. I have read Second Chance Romance. Ya, indeed, you are right! Jason Hicks is smart. I have implemented a few of the methods and it worked great for me..
Great Advice! Your article is really useful for me. Thanks for your tips.
I have decided to buy your book
I am 6 month pregnant to my husband…we already have a 3 year old and he already has a 10 year old from a previous relationship. He works really hard to the detriment of time with his family. On his days off and without consultation with me…he organises for his daughter from the other relationship to be with us all of the time….I started to feel resentful of limited time with him and the exclusion from decisions he made regarding our relationship. On our wedding anniversary he had 1 week off and invited his dad and partner to stay with us….on the day he left he went out for the night with his mates and spent the next two days in bed with a hangover….then it was time for him to go back….I didnt speak to him for 4 weeks (I normally would give in but wanted to make a stance this time as fed up with the behaviour)….over the weeks the situation got worse and I felt more and more taken for granted. I eventually kicked him out….I thought the fright would give him a kick up the ass…..but to my shock he took to his life living at his mums like a duck to water….I battered him with emotional texts for 2 months and then by sheer chance I saw him with another girl….he has been having sex with her….he says we are over and he wants a divorce….he really doesnt care I am 6 month pregnant with his son….he only interested in access to his daughter…..he did say the sex has stopped and it was just a bit of fun….and that really it was my fault as how was he supposed to last months without sex….nevertheless a week and a half on he is still without remorse and adamant we are finished….I am aboslutely distraught. I am at a loss as to which rule to follow…..with only 12 weeks to go in my pregnancy I do not feel I have much room for manouviring??? Please help…..advice welcomed….I am scared to back off from him for any length of time incase he starts seeing this girl again.
‘To get your ex back’ has never been easier. My advice is not to let the ego come in between the relationship. This is probably the major factor that calls for a break-up.
For girls, Me and my ex split up about 6 weeks ago. I have been hounding him and acting like a stalker – not attractive. I have been reading so many “get your ex back” secrets. I think patience is a virtue and this is something I am trying NOW. Will see if the “no contact” rule actually works. Girls think “Femenine Grace” and look after yourself, also look at ways to see how a man really thinks. I am going to make myself so irristable to my ex that if he doesn’t want me back, at least now I will attract the right kind or guy and be able to keep him through the things I’ve learnt. I’ll never be needy for a man again, as I will always have myself and my girlfriends.
My girlfriend left one month ago. I am still recovering from that relationship. So this is a really good advise you put it in this website. I am hoping she will come back to me again