i need some revenge or at least some satisfaction – ex-girlfriend?
I dated my best friend and neighbor`s wife`s sister. She lives far away but we met at the wedding. We both had other people at the time and broke up with them to be together. She was very convincing with her "I love you and this was meant to be" garbage. She dumped me over the phone and has the balls to be coming to visit my buddy and his wife and stay for 2 weeks WITH her ex-boyfriend whom she is now back with. I know I`ll see them in the elevator or in the neighborhood for sure. I lost my job because of her as well but that story is way too long. I`m trying to move on but seeing them is gonna be rough since I`m the one who still isn`t working. I just don`t want to hide and I always thought that if I could find a job and get my life on track, maybe she`d come back to me. I`m an idiot right? Is it wrong for me to want some sort of revenge. its also a sore spot in my buddies marriage. no lectures, just advice please.
great advice. i guess "revenge" wasn`t the right word. I don`t want to hurt anyone. I just don`t need this right now and i know the correct solution is to forget about it and move on. but it sucks. no revenge. i just wanted it to be over but its hard when they`re gonna be right here.
also, to clarify, she convinced me to quit my job and move to where she was. when i got there, she said she changed her mind so i moved back here. that was the worst part.
great advice everyone. thanks.
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Instead of revenge, get yourself a punching bag and well….you take it from there. Actually you don’t need a punching bag. You can punch without one.
It makes one feel so much better to release the built up frustrations.
If yo do run into her by chance, hold your head high and just smile. That will be good enough to keep her wondering.
She doesn’t sound like a very nice person if she had to break up over the phone.
You are certainly better off without her – that’s for sure.
Remember that.
And don’t let not having a job bother you. You will find another. Concentrate your energy on that, make new friends and move on!!
change your thinking,be happy for her( i know its hard )but once you send out good vibes in the universe they will come back to you
GL
Move on. the best revenge is getting something better whether it is a job or new girl friend.
You probably know their habits a bit so avoid them. revenge can do stupid things to a person’s head; rise above it.
‘revenge is a cruel words the one who practise it’ forget her. shes not the only living person in this world
i think the way your feeling is pretty normal, but my best advice to you is to just let it go. either she is trying to make you jealous and get a rise out of you or she has really moved on. i cant say because i dont really know. but the best thing for you to do right now is to not do anything. the more you focus on revenge or whatever, the harder it is going to be for you to get over her. i am in the process of getting over my first love and not talking to her or checking up on her or any of that really helps. yeah i know its hard trust me. but thats what youve got to do. dont try and get revenge or anything because ultimately your only hurting yourself. my advice would be not to talk to her, or check up on her like her myspace or anything and look around for a job and make new friends. trust me, once you start working again and starting hanging around with other people things WILL get alot better for you. good luck, i hope this helps
I’d say don’t even think about her man,seriously get her out of ur entire life even if u accidentally bump into her..its like bumping into a complete stranger! believe that as a fact and u’ll be extremely happy,revenge thoughts are the exact opposite its too much attention given when she’s not worth it.
The sea is full of fish out there waiting to be catched! go find a new hot fish!
If u get a good job do it for urself and ur success and happiness.
you didnt lose your job because of her.You lost it because of you.If you totally fell for an out of towner with a BF where she lives at a wedding no less where all are loaded well all I can say isNOT VERY SMART.Get on with it and dont let revenge play into it.Be careful@ the next wedding they are famous for drunken one nighters