How to get your ex back?
Well I broke up with my ex like last year in sept and we haven’t been talking. I was so immature then. I want to get back with her and will never leave her again and want to show her that I am a mature man now. She was in one relationship before she switched her focus to school. I want to be the best friend to her and if possible get her back if not just stay a friend. I talked to her 2 days ago but afterwards she hasn’t spoke to me. I was joking around with her and then she stopped. idk if thats why she stopped but when we were talking, I ask her to lets start over and she said ok. How do I go about this. Can anyone out there give me any pointers? And also do I have a chance?
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Hello
Winning back an ex is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances to win her back increase dramatically.
Here are some steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:
Don’t Ask Your Ex Girlfriend To Get Back Together
You should never ask your ex girlfriend to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!
You’re only shot at getting your ex girlfriend back is to follow the right steps that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.
But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get girls attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.
So don’t ignore someone’s texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can’t even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.
You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show her that your happiness isn’t dependent on being with her.
Being Jealous Is Not The Way To Go
Listen to me …SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it can be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It’s ok if it bothers you, but don’t let it show and don’t call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don’t have any right to tell her what to do.
If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.
Be Flexible
Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. Rather be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who takes things easily is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again faster then you might think.
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I hope it helps…
get him jeleos
You might have a chance. But you need to start being friends. That’s the only way to win her back. Not only that, but you need to get to know each other better since you just said you are now a mature man. You need to show her what your qualities are.What good of a boyfriend can you be if you can’t be a friend. Someone who knows her and understands her. Try that and you wont have to ask her to be your girl. She will ask you to be her man.