About 9 months ago i split from my gf,she was my first love and was a painful breakup why cant i get over her?
Everytime i see her, she reminds me why i fell in love with her, and she was the only person in my life but i have a new gf now and i really like her. but getting over her was the hardest thing i had to deal with
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Don’t worry. What you’re going through is perfectly normal. It’s okay to have a hard time getting over your first girlfriend. And it’s okay to have a new girlfriend even though you’re still having feelings for the first. (You probably always will have some feelings for your first girlfriend–that’s just how it works).
What’s important is to understand that this is normal and not let your feelings control your actions. This is a very important lesson to learn. No matter how you feel, treat your ex as someone who was once a friend but is now just a polite acquaintance. Let everyone think that you totally got over her. Let them be impressed with how well you’ve moved on. Don’t let anyone know how you feel.
You’ve no idea how often in life you’re going to have to hide your feelings. Might as well practice doing it now.
Are you over her or not?
You obviously aren’t and you have a g/f?How do you make her feel walking around all depressed over your ex?Start being grateful you have a g/f and realize there is a good reason you split up with the ex.
It’s your girlfriend you should feel sorry for.
If you’re not over your ex, you really need to explain to your girlfriend and it with her because this isn’t fair on HER at all.
Do you still talk to the ex? If so then [after ending it with your girlfriend] tell her how you feel. If she doesn’t feel the same, then you have to move on.
OR kick the ex out of your life. It’s the quickest way to get over her, and if your girlfriend finds out about her then she’ll always see her as a threat.
You definitely should not be seeing someone else if you aren’t even over your last girlfriend!
Your first love will always be a memory but there’s no point on being emotionally attached to something that is over…ESPECIALLY SINCE YOU’RE ALREADY SEEING SOMEONE ELSE!
I have a feeling you are using your current gf as a rebound…that’s one of the worst things you can do to a girl because rebounds usually don’t last.
You need to think about what you’re doing. I feel sorry for your current girlfriend. If you’re seriously not over your last gf there’s no harm in being single for a while and trying to sort everything out.
Best of luck.
well jake. i know how you feel. jake i felt very bad back then. we were neighbors. i don/t know why we start to argue and argue. we couldn/t stop and think. we broke up very early. 1974 or 75. we haven/t talked over 30 years. i know i couldn/t make it worst. so in sat march 2001. we buried the hatchet. now the ex and i found two new people to be with. god helped us. asked god to help ya jake.
its very hard to get over a person you love like me my ex left me last year in august and im still not over him i cant be with no other guys because it just reminds me of him but now im starting to get over him and to move on but take it slow you’ll forget her someday