Comments on: How can I learn to love my husband again? http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1010/how-can-i-learn-to-love-my-husband-again/ Sat, 11 Feb 2012 14:09:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: yatesjl35 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1010/how-can-i-learn-to-love-my-husband-again/comment-page-1/#comment-1628 yatesjl35 Sat, 01 Aug 2009 07:19:36 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1010/how-can-i-learn-to-love-my-husband-again/#comment-1628 When the newness wears off of a marriage, the best you can hope for is to have a best friend out of it left. If you wanted to have a wild sexual relationship for the rest of your life, you should have never had children. Now he sees you as the mother of your children. Not a hot, sexy, young relationship kind of girl. When the newness wears off of a marriage, the best you can hope for is to have a best friend out of it left. If you wanted to have a wild sexual relationship for the rest of your life, you should have never had children. Now he sees you as the mother of your children. Not a hot, sexy, young relationship kind of girl.

]]> By: merciasounds http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1010/how-can-i-learn-to-love-my-husband-again/comment-page-1/#comment-1629 merciasounds Sat, 01 Aug 2009 07:19:36 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1010/how-can-i-learn-to-love-my-husband-again/#comment-1629 3 children in 5 years takes away the 'togetherness' of any couple. What you need to do is to get mom or sister/brother to take your kids overnight, and start 'dating' your hubby again. Or just at least put aside one night a week where you two can go out for a meal, or see a film or exhibition, relationships have to be worked at, it easy to start letting things slide and take each other for granted. Talk. Realise that the children would be devastated if you were to part. My mom and dad were 17 and 18 when they married and are still like a couple of newly-weds now. Give him a kiss, ask how his day was and LISTEN. Cook him his favourite meal and sit on his lap and fuss him, i'm sure he'd reciprocate - it's just that you've forgotten how to be with each other - if the love is there, it'll come back strong. If it isn't, then, well think of the children, be friends and DON'T use them as pawns to hurt each other. I hope you have a long and happy marriage. 3 children in 5 years takes away the ‘togetherness’ of any couple. What you need to do is to get mom or sister/brother to take your kids overnight, and start ‘dating’ your hubby again. Or just at least put aside one night a week where you two can go out for a meal, or see a film or exhibition, relationships have to be worked at, it easy to start letting things slide and take each other for granted. Talk. Realise that the children would be devastated if you were to part. My mom and dad were 17 and 18 when they married and are still like a couple of newly-weds now. Give him a kiss, ask how his day was and LISTEN. Cook him his favourite meal and sit on his lap and fuss him, i’m sure he’d reciprocate – it’s just that you’ve forgotten how to be with each other – if the love is there, it’ll come back strong. If it isn’t, then, well think of the children, be friends and DON’T use them as pawns to hurt each other. I hope you have a long and happy marriage.

]]> By: mallory m http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1010/how-can-i-learn-to-love-my-husband-again/comment-page-1/#comment-1630 mallory m Sat, 01 Aug 2009 07:19:36 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1010/how-can-i-learn-to-love-my-husband-again/#comment-1630 you can always learn to love him that's how arranged marriages work you learn to respect them then love grows from respect and in a marriage you have to learn to love them and to work at making you marriage work you can always learn to love him that’s how arranged marriages work you learn to respect them then love grows from respect and in a marriage you have to learn to love them and to work at making you marriage work

]]> By: elvlayarvvi http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1010/how-can-i-learn-to-love-my-husband-again/comment-page-1/#comment-1631 elvlayarvvi Sat, 01 Aug 2009 07:19:36 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1010/how-can-i-learn-to-love-my-husband-again/#comment-1631 spend more alone time w/ him... go out and do things... even if it's just grocery shopping without the kids... make time for each other before the kids wake and after they go to sleep... spend more alone time w/ him… go out and do things… even if it’s just grocery shopping without the kids…

make time for each other before the kids wake and after they go to sleep…

]]> By: eillem123 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1010/how-can-i-learn-to-love-my-husband-again/comment-page-1/#comment-1632 eillem123 Sat, 01 Aug 2009 07:19:36 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1010/how-can-i-learn-to-love-my-husband-again/#comment-1632 Sometimes, you have to think about what the idea of marriage is all about: every couple goes through bad times, good times, and BORING times, which is what you sound like. Are you just bored with the life you have right now? Does caring for your children seem more of a chore than a joy? Do you see your husband as a boring friend? How often do you have sex? Is it enough for you or too much? Do you still talk together about everything? You say your marriage is unhappy, but the only complaint I can see is that you're just not feeling that 'spark' anymore. Are you willing to wreck your children's lives over something like that? And you say your husband is your friend - I don't think you realize how many wives wish they could say that about their husbands! Maybe you should be counting your blessings rather than complaining. Five years is a lot of time to throw away just because you're bored. Find other things to enjoy (NOT other men!) in your life - take a closer look at your husband and see what attracted you to him in the first place. Look at your children and be thankful they are healthy. Then look in the mirror & say to yourself that you are indeed blessed, because, my dear, YOU ARE! Sometimes, you have to think about what the idea of marriage is all about: every couple goes through bad times, good times, and BORING times, which is what you sound like. Are you just bored with the life you have right now? Does caring for your children seem more of a chore than a joy? Do you see your husband as a boring friend? How often do you have sex? Is it enough for you or too much? Do you still talk together about everything?
You say your marriage is unhappy, but the only complaint I can see is that you’re just not feeling that ‘spark’ anymore. Are you willing to wreck your children’s lives over something like that? And you say your husband is your friend – I don’t think you realize how many wives wish they could say that about their husbands!
Maybe you should be counting your blessings rather than complaining. Five years is a lot of time to throw away just because you’re bored. Find other things to enjoy (NOT other men!) in your life – take a closer look at your husband and see what attracted you to him in the first place. Look at your children and be thankful they are healthy. Then look in the mirror & say to yourself that you are indeed blessed, because, my dear, YOU ARE!

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