Fiance broke up . . . no reason?
I met the love of my life over a year ago. We dated for about 6 months and were engaged for 3. He called me one day and broke up with me. He has not given me any real reason. He said that he was uncomfortable with the way we handeled certain decisions. We were trying to do a lot of things at one time, buy a house, plan a wedding, fix a house.
From what he told me, it’s been things that my mother had done and nothing that he came out and told me I did wrong. I am still very willing to be with him, but I have not heard from him. I wanted to give him time and space to think about things, but I’m afraid that he is going to forget all about me. A week before he broke up with me, he told me that he has had the best 9 months of his life and would not trade them for anything.
Is there still a chance for us, and how do I get this heartache to finally go away?
My head tells me that it is over and I need to move on, but my heart tells me that he is the one.
I have tried to talk to him a few times. He has never been one to talk about things or show much emotion. Everytime that I have talked to him, he has called me by the pet name he always did. To me, that meant he still cared and had feelings.
It’s been a few months since the break up, but my heart don’t let me move on. I’ve tried everything to forget him and listen to my head, but he made my life make sense.
I just don’t know what to do.
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He hurt you that way without much explanation. You should move on.
Maybe you should call him and explain to him that you think maybe you both were moving to fast before and could you both start over and regroup with no pressures. I know everyone wants to ascertain goals and be successful but you never gave it (your relationship) time to enjoy one another, wait at least five years to get married and have fun. You can make or break this do not hesitate, so call him! Good luck.
Odds are that your fiance is quite conflicted. He probably does feel that you are someone he can marry but, he just might not be sure if he’s ready. He’s probably taking some time to figure out if he’s ready to never be intimate with another women again. Ultimately, if you leave him be for a week or two, he’ll remember how much better it is with you and he’ll come back.
Give him a little more time. Talk to him, though. You DESERVE an answer as to why he has broken up with you so tell him that and see what he says. Don’t push too hard, however, if he is not forthcoming because he’ll be forced to conjure up something he doesn’t mean in order to hide his true conflicts.
I hope this helps and wish you the best.