I found my ex’s personal ad on craigslist, and he has a girlfriend! Opportunity for revenge?
Short story: Browsing craigslist casual encounters/personal ads (do it mostly for entertainment, there are never any cute guys on there anyway…one time I posted a false ad saying that I was a “hot blonde with 32DDDs” to see how many responses I would get, and the result was….crazy. But that’s another story), I encountered an ad that looks like it was PROBABLY written by my ex.
I use “probably” because there is no way to tell for sure, since he didn’t post a picture-however he did post his first name, his age, and it was written in his “writing style.” I also live in a small town and he’s the only “17-year old Carl” that I know of. The thing is, he’s had a serious girlfriend for the past year. This particular ex and I didn’t have a very “healthy” relationship- he was constantly flirting with other girls, pressuring me into sexual things, he cheated on me, etc. It ended pretty badly, with him lying to other people about how “far” we went sexually.
After we broke up, I just kind of tried to heal myself emotionally and never really found a way to exact revenge. I feel as though I’ve stumbled onto a gold mine.
What can I do with this?
His girlfriend and I are friendly
also: I am not “obsessed” or “crazy”-it’s not as though I was LOOKING for this. I just stumbled upon his ad and was like “woooaahhh….” Yes, he did treat me like crap, but I’m over it-I’ve had a couple of relationships since he and I were together. I feel like he deserves something bad to happen to him, though…
I feel bad for his girlfriend, since I genuinely do like her. He really is a narcissistic dick.
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You’re probably way too young and way too pretty to waste your time stalking an ex boyfriend and letting him get into your head. He is in your head because you want revenge. I say, go out, make new friends and stop bothering about what "he" is doing.
He’s not worth you filling up your time, any time, trying to figure out how to get back at him. Believe it or not, he did you a big favor, because frankly he sounds like a "butt" … So what if he’s got a girlfriend? Let her deal with him. You go out and find yourself a guy that likes you for YOU and who doesn’t pressure you into doing anything that you’re not comfortable with.
You didn’t stumble into anything. This is not a gold mine…this is you holding onto a bad relationship. Let it go… find something more constructive to do with your time.
You don’t want to really look like the looney ex girlfriend from hell do you?
I say, Living well is the best revenge. Which means, enjoy your life, let this old drama go…find new friends, other things to do.. that’s what I’m saying.
I say go for it. Jus dont go to far
revenge sucks
well i woulod say to go for it he deserves it just be careful not to get t caught up with getting revenge
honestly u should just mind ure own business and not be a trouble maker. If the girl was ure friend.. then i would say u are concerned… but it sounds like u are bitter. Get over it and move on.
…Make up a really idealistic girl and flirt with him like crazy. Then arrange a meeting and get him all excited and go and be all like "did you REALLY think a girl like that would go out with you?"
Ask what kind of 17 looks for girls on CRAIGSLIST
lmao
well, sometimes a little joking will make you feel better and is pretty harmless, but taking things too far or wanting to get revenge is never the best…it’s hard to get over for sure, but you have to accept the fact that the guy wasn’t very nice (at all), and that you learned from it and will do better now. So I would say…make an account pretending to be an old lady (60+) in your town (since it’s a small town it won’t be too hard) and say you’ve always secretly been interested in younger men, especially him. He’ll go crazy wondering if she really does or not, but it won’t cause too much of chaos or anything
lol he was probably doing it for fun like
take the revenge lol i know it sounds bad but just make sure you dont get caught i hate jerks like him lol
Revenge is never a pretty thing
It can backfire so horribly and end up hurting everyone involved.
Step back and see just how pathetic he is on his own… you can do better!
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The best revenge is to forget about him and never talk to him again. Men want you more when they can’t have you. Just show him that you have moved on and you are no longer thinking about him. For you to go out of your way to get revenge just shows him that you are still thinking about him. Move on you don’t need the headache.
alright. find out who his "gf" is and tell her to back off ur man, Being funny. do it anynonamusly so that he wont find out who it is
I’d just drop it. I sound like creates a lot of stress in your life, so stay way from stress/him. Whether you want to admit it or not your reaction to him is a residual effect of his control or attempt to control you. ignore him, don’t let him mess your head up; It will only make him feel powerful (Trust me, i’m 27 but I was a 17 year old "boy" once and remember it clearly).
If you really want to get on with your self, get to know a guy that’s 10 times the gentleman he is. I hope you can find that guy.
like you said, you not sure if it really is him… imagine, u do this “revenge” and its not him… also, if you tell the new girlfriend, she going to side with him regardless.. so in the long run, you’ll end up looking like the jealous ex girlfriend..
let it go….
regardless, whether is him or not, let it go…
its his current girlfriend’s problem.. let him cheat and lie on her, it has nothing to do with you.. let it go who cares…
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You sound like a crazy fu*k, just like my ex gf. If he has been dating someone seriously for over a year, then how twisted are you to want to be in his business, looking for his ad (stumbled on it my *ss), befriending his current gf (stalking 101), and finding a way to “exact your revenge”? Seriously? Get a FU*KING LIFE YOU CRAZY BIT*H!!!!!!