How did you get your ex back when he broke up with you?
My ex boyfriend is going through some stuff. He is having issues because hes 27 years old has no solid job and doesn’t know what he wants out of life. He left me to work on himself and figure out what he wants. How can I be sure to make him figure out that what he wants is me? Yeah, I know he sounds like a loser but I love him and I know that we had a very good relationship until he started having this identity crisis. Please explain how you got your man back and what you think I should do?
Thank you so much!
Im posting in marriage/divorce to get advice here too because I only got a few answers in singles/dating
Tiff, I understand what you mean but its not just "not having a good job". Its a complete life meltdown with depression and everything because he is frustrated with nothing being what he wants and I guess I just got the short end of the stick. Plus he is so indecisive he did this with one of his ex’s and then got back with her later! I still love the crazy and I just have this feeling that it will be meant to be.
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Honestly? For your own sanity and well being, treat this like a break up, because most likely it is. Move on with life, if he comes back great, take him back or don’t.
You don’t leave people you truly love because you are having personal issues, midlife crisis whatever. It just seems like he just isn’t that into keeping this relationship. And if he does come back to you, how do you know your life isn’t going to be filled with this back and forth crap? How can you feel secure that he wont do it again when shit hits the fan?
Its happened to me before. I was absolutely miserable. We got back together like a week later, but a year down the road I broke up with him.
You feel like its meant to be, but your judgment right now is pretty bias. What do your friends and family think about it? Im sure you might not like what you hear, but Im sure they really have your best interests at heart.
You cant, If he wants you he will be with you. You cant put anything in to his mind…
If he truly loved you he wouldn’t have left you. He’s done with you. Move on.
there is really nothing you can do to WIN him back but if it was meant to be then he will come back and if not well it is better to know now then to have spent 5 years with the man and him having this identity crisis
We talked…and talked and talked.
Communication, mutual respect and the ability to compromise sometimes is the key to resolving a conflict, whether it’s a break-up or the little things in our lives that explode around us.
If it’s meant to be, you can make it work.
Good luck!
Well i’ll be honest. Not having a good job is no reason to end a relationship. Honestly you can’t make him feel anything he doesn’t. You can’t ‘win’ a man back if he left you. Think back to when you broke up with someone- was there anything they could’ve said to make you get back with them? No. because the reason didn’t matter- if you weren’t into them anymore, you were into someone else or you wanted to focus on your lucrative badmitten career. Bottom line is you didn’t wanna be with them anymore. He broke up with you and isn’t trying to win you back. Don’t forget that fact.
In my opinion, that is not a very good reason to break up with someone. I think he has other reasons for it that he just didn’t tell you.
It is also my opinion that ex’s are just that..for a reason.
What if he does this to you again?
Be yourself and if he wants you back, he will come back…on his own.