Is My marriege dead Part 2?
Thanks for all the replies. I am quite surprised that so many of you think that my marriage is actually "Dead". Yes i do my fair share around the house. I set off to work at 6.30 am and dont arrive home till 5.30 tea time where fair play dinner is always on the table waiting for me. From then on it is me that takes over the clearing up, wash the kids, put them to bed and read them a story, while the wife has a bath, relaxes and watches Emer, Corrie & East. Talk i cannot as this is Sh, sh, sh time. She does not look after 2 kids all day. One is at school, the other is in creche. I have changed my working pattern at work, hence my long hours at work to have the Friday off to look after the youngest to save on creche fees. Tell me now who should be tired and emotionally drained???? Ha, ha, ha. Its not all bad though, dont get me wrong. As a marriege its ok, we hardly ever argue, i’m not hen pecked. I go out on the odd occassion. were always having wknds away Its just passionless, thats al
Thats the big problem. When we go shopping, and i suggest a nice bra/panties for fun in say M&S, she says what for!!!!
Thanks Emma!
Naturell. I’ll tell u a little story. We were at a friends birthday bash a few weeks ago. Last dance came on. All went to dance. I asked if shed like to dance, she refused point blank. We were sat there like lemons!!!!
Red Devil. No there was loads of passion. She always came on to me. in fact she was quite wild. It has started to go pear shaped between the birth ofthe two boys. The sex doesnt really bother me , its the Hugs, snogs and hold hands that i miss.
Hi Yummy Mummy. Im a Boy not a Girl, hi, hi,hi
Thanks Red Devil. Thats the type of answer ive been looking for. that sounds good!
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Was there passion at one point? If there never was any passion, and your relationship has been more chummy and partner like than passion and romance, why is it bothering you NOW after all these years? Did you do one of the big boo boo’s and go into this thinking SHE WOULD CHANGE or that YOU COULD CHANGE HER?
Go to a sex shop and buy some toys and tell her you want to play.
You need to bring passion back to your marriage. It will be hard at first but well worth it in my opinion. The next weekend you both have together plan something new to do or do something spontaneous both of you would never do (an activity like boating or something) where you will both be talking and spending time together on a closer basis.
Talk to her and tell her you would like more time to talk to each other and that you feel that you do more than your share of taking care of the kids. Ask if occasionally she can take over, like two days a week.
if you want to leave her come on over to my house, what I would give for someone to help me out with the house work, and kids, hell I would be happy to get a thank you for all I do, oh well some of us have it made, and the rest of us work our tails off
I totally know where your coming from! I’m a 21 year old Stay at Hom Mom with 2 boys ages 19mths, and 4mths. I also Babysit 2 kids M-F 7am until 8pm. They are 23mths, and 10mths!! I’d get a Job outside of home but then I’d be paying for Daycare and that’s be just pointless…
Also I wake up at 4:30am if I’m lucky 5am.. My boys wake me up at least 3-4 times a night so I don’t get much sleep. And all I get is "Why isn’t the house clean?" or "Are you gonna get cook something" or he yells because I don’t give him attention orrrr if I try and wake him up he gets frustrated with me! Hello at 1 in the afternoon I think it’s time to wake up and spend time with your kids. Maybe give me a break for once!!! He’s always nagging about everything I do…. He says I bitch all the time but I don’t I’m just over having to do everything by myself!
Don’t get me wrong I love my husband to DEATH because he helped me along time ago when I was in a shitty situation but still….he has no right to think that this is the 50’s!! Sheesh!
do you get off before she does
have you tried helping her get off
is there anything your leaving out