Im heartbroken will i ever find love again?
I have been w/ my gf for over 6 years, we have been through everything and she has just told me she dosnt love me anymore 
Im so down i dont feel like doing anything, all i can do is cry, we where due to be married in september and now its over i just feel so down please i need advice.
How can i get her to love me again, how can i get over her, will i ever find love again?
Thanks heaps
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You will find love again. I never thought i’ld get over my partner of 14 yrs and its only been this week after 7 mths that i realise we were not suited. He told me he didnt love me anymore. I was and have been devastated,Its hard but you will pull through. Don’t let yr current feelings rule the rest of yr life. They will pass in time honestly!!!
Go to the DR and get some antidepressants and in 2 weeks you will feel a lot better. stay on them though as they DO HELP!!!! Especially when going through a crisis such as this. You are not alone and believe me you will come out stronger and will find yourself more.
You will be fine and pull through and look at this as a phase in yr life, not the end.. Something and someone better will come along. I know it!!!
Stay strong as hard as it is, Honestly you can live without another person for yr happiness.. You need to push yourself a little and i know i isolated myself for months which does not help..
Just be you… You have good points and are a good person… Think of all of the good things you have in your life.
Take Care and just know each day will get easier. It won’t feel like it now, but it will… I never thought i could do it alone, but you can!!!!
Then someone else will come along that will never leave you..
Be positive, in life things happen for a reason…. you can pull through. Go and see your GP and a counsellor. They do help…
I wish you all the best. I have been where you are now, and you will be fine!!!
Oh dude, you’re pathetic…
Snap out of it, be glad she dumped you NOW instead of AFTER the wedding, where she could clean you out financially also..
Go out and bang as much P as you can, you’ll feel much better.
One day soon, you will wake up, be so happy she is not in your life anymore, and you’ll thank God you NEVER have to see her again.
You will seriously wonder what the heck you were thinking, and, going forward, you will know this:
Nothing good EVER comes from doing anything nice for a women
Treat them like crap and you’ll have to beat them off with sticks
Live by that and you’ll be much happier !
course you will find love again i mean you may always love her because youve been together for so long, but that doesnt mean you wont find love again. it takes time. Time will heal your broken heart. and you cant get her to love you again if she will she will, you can force things. maybe you should talk to her about it? maybe shell miss you if she remember all the memories and all that
Being a girl she kicked you. Then we are the mens yaar we have lot of guts than a girl. why do you bother about such a girl who doesn’t know the meaning of love.
You are not pathetic, but are a guy who has feelings, this is quite normal and would’nt be normal if you were okay after a six year relationship ended. Hang in there it does get better as time goes on. You do need to move on and not concentrate on how to get her back, it is her loss.
I am 25 and was married for 5 years.Dated 3, and my husband told me while i was pregnant in the middle of tennessee away from friends and family that he didn’t love me anymore. I felt like my heart was ripped out and almost the same feeling like somebody had died! My advice too you is find good friends, and over time. It will take time. You will move on, and someone even better for you will come along. I went to college and took classes too meet people, and get some education out of the way and it really helped. I am a single mother of 2 and my oldest is 2. IT wasn’t easy.. but I’m the happiest i have been in years!
Yes you will…just remember you are not alone…God walks beside you…FOOTSTEPS in the sand, read it. For now while this is not comforting, be with friends and family being alone will just make you depressed and cry more. Pray for strength to move on and believe that HE hears you and will answer and HE will pull you through. Everyday its easier until it all starts to fall into place and then you will meet the one that is meant for you or not…you might find yourself and that would be better. Stay strong my friend.
It is always good ruled by better so give yourself time when you will get the better you will automatically fall for it
And why you want to be behind the women who doesn’t cares for you after being 6 years with you. THINK over it. If 6 years cant make any relation then for life time the situation will be same.
Put on your superhero costume, Batman – she will love u again.
Sorry to hear
I came out of an 8 year relationship so i know how hard it is…let yourself mope etc, but sooner than later you should force yourself to get out of the house and see friends/family and try to find ways to keep yourself busy. Can be hard since you’re probably used to doing things with your ex…but necessary if you want to move on.
I would advise against begging her back. Let her have her space. If it’s really meant to be, she may come back. But i guess you shouldn’t count on it, and try to live your life as best as possible right now…
You cannot make someone love you. You will find love again. You will be glad that this girl broke up with you because what is the point of having someone that doesn’t love you. Drag yourself up and go about your daily life. Spend as much time with friends as you can. Time will take care of this. She will surely and slowly become just a memory of your past. You will meet someone else and you will be glad she broke up with you, because you will just love this new girl so much. I promise you that you will laugh again. Most of us have suffered the kind of pain that you are going through. I am so sorry for you to have to go through this, but this is just a part of life. I survived the loss of my love years ago, and I am fine. You will be too.
ignore what most of the "insensitive" men are saying if you cant win her back, however, you do need to move on, and you will find love again
This will pass though your love for her will be deep in your heart, you will one day find love again.
offcourse you will find a true love if you just wait for the right one, my dear.
Rewind, you were engaged after being with her for 6 years and then she tells you she doesn’t love you anymore. That is awful. You may want to sit down and ask her why she feels that way. Maybe there is more to it. Maybe she is getting cold feet about the marriage and she is afraid of getting hurt and is using that as an excuse. You never know until you try to find out. You might also find the link in the resource box helpful too.
One for singles and dating, I think.
during this period of time, all u will hope for , is for her 2come back to you.but its during this time that its the most tough cus u have to resist the urge of praying/hoping that she’ll come back 2u and try occupying urself in every way possible 2get u through this time.once that hardest is over, then believe it or not, u will find that the right women for u will want no1 but u, but u have 2be emotionally available 4her or else u wld do her wrong.wish u th best