How can I help my wife love me again….when I have cheated on her…..because she rejected me for 2 years ?
How do I get the love back…..the trust back…..the sex back ?
Why sex ? Sex is important….it is an important part of my life…..I am not prepared to give up my sex life….because of age or because my partner might not want to have sex with me ……..
That is why I cheated……but it was 2 years of no sex, before I did !
She told me I had Sexual problems….and I did with her…..failure……but thankfully , with nobody else !
I love my wife…..but if we don’t love as we did before……I can’t promise I wont cheat again !
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You need professional marriage counseling…..
Don’t blame your wife for your cheating. Grow up.
yeah its called marrige therapy
no excuse will work pal sorry
Dr. Phil.
just find another wife
You have lost her trust. It might take awhile to get it back or it might not come at all. No matter how bad the relationship is you never cheat. Not cool!!!
Forget it, it’s over. Find someone new, there’s plenty of fish in the sea…
First of all, stop using the excuse that she didn’t give you sex. Because you keep saying that, it shows you aren’t taking full responsibility for your infidelity.
Secondly, seek counseling immediately. Even if the marriage does end in divorce, counseling will help you to better deal with future relationships should the situation arise again.
You need professional therapy.
She needs professional therapy.
Then, after that, if there is anything left….you two should go to marriage counselling.
You can’t blame her for your cheating or for not wanting you back when you did that. To a woman, that is the ultimate betrayal. It makes her question why she wasn’t good enough and did you ever really love her or were you just using her.
The decision to cheat was on you and most women would never fully trust you again. You’re either headed for therapy or divorce.
If I was your wife, I would know that you would cheat again if your sex life didn’t improve and that would prevent me from helping you get your sex life back. It’s not a guarantee, it’s selfish of you and it’s the principal. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. Women don’t put as much importance on sex as men do. Sorry, but you are doomed to wandering the world looking for sex. By the way, try to figure out why you are not sexually attractive to your wife. If you were it wouldn’t have happened. P.S. The women you cheated with just used you.
It is better to see the divorce counselor to help you fixed the problem soon. In order to save marriage, the couples must be willing to undergo some changes in the way their marriage is viewed. Communication is a very important matter to save marriage. Lack of communications means also lack of understanding.
.-= Ciara from Counseling Divorce´s last blog ..Pre-Marital Counseling =-.