My ex boyfriend and i have gone on 2 dates, does he want me back ? Was I a BAD gf ?
I think that my older successful semi ex boyfriend was fr more sensitive and insecure than I could have ever imagined.
When we were dating and exclusive i thought i was behaving beyond reproach and was hard on him.
In fact i was the one who asked for a break.
his behavior had become distant and cold and I didn’t look to my own actions for his remote emotions.
Now as we’ve slowly rebuilt trust and become friends I think I may have done things to push him away
I have fun being playful with male friends on facebook… they re totally platonic but he calls it flirting.
also because i tend to put up photos of myself on facebook he makes fun of them and says i must want attention and ego boosts.
he keeps saying a camisole im wearing looks like a negligee… I explained it wasn’t and if hes jealous ill take them down
he keeps saying he isn’t jealous but he sure acts it..also i just found out that he was hurt i never called him much and always let him call me… (he didn’t say he was hurt he just complained i never called him first while we dated)
well i called him tonight and he acted stunned and excited. it was cute.
i really thought women are supposed to let the man chase them and also make herself look independent and not 100% into him.
but im noticing he genuinely seems to like me showing him i care.
should i also interact less with my guy friends on facebook and just send him new photos of myself privately ?
it seems the more i act warm , spontaneously demonstrative and faithful the nicer and warmer he acts in return….
does his responsiveness to my new behavior bode well for reuniting ?
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he is insecure.
a secure guy would not act all whiney like that. But then again thats part of the dating game… that can get old.
It certainly does
You’ve figured it out darl, and it wasn’t that hard….treat him how you’d like to be treated.
I dont know where girls got the idea that we like the girls we have feelings for to act like they’re not into us, that just makes us feel rejected.
And we CERTAINLY dont want you to be 100% independant, we want to feel needed and depended upon, its our instinct, without that, we feel utterly useless.
And there are no rules when it comes to chasing, guy or girl, everyone loves to be chased, can’t you imagine it’d be nice for a guy to have a beautiful girl go after him?
Males and females are not always opposites, and if we stopped playing games and starting expressing our true feelings, then things would work out a lot easier, as nature intended.