Why do men leave you when you get pregnant?
I’m a single mom of two,one is 10 and the other one 4,my eldest one ask me that question because of the fact that i was in a very fast paced relationship and my ex freaked out when he found out that i was pregnant and left me with all the responsibility,i am very heartbroken and i don’t know what to answer my son,please help
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Maybe its because most women have poor choice when it comes to finding a man. Quit looking for a good man at the clubs and bars and u might find a keeper.
I find that kind of offending, since I myself just had a baby with my wife. You are stereotyping as if all men leave their woman when they get pregnant. Why not find a guy make sure he is right and then have a family instead putting yourself in these kinds of situations. You can tell your son that some men dont know how to be responsible for their actions and that he should learn and grow to be a better man and not follow in those footsteps. He is at a good age to learn the truth dont sugar coat it.
Why do SOME men leave, because they are immature self absorbed jerks. Most times men will express that they do not want children but the women will get pregnant thinking a baby is a good idea. Yes I agree that it takes two but I will admit that I have known several girls who got pregnant thinking that would fix their relationship and guess what he was out. I guess I did not answer your question but good luck finding your answer.
was he the father? did you take his decision on whether to have the kid or not into consideration?
I’m so sorry this has happened to you. I’m afraid you will have to tell your son the truth and help him deal with it. If he has a lot of problems with it you may want to go into counseling with him.
Unfortunately, you have picked out two very bad men to have relationships with. Don’t be afraid to open your heart to another man. Just make sure he is a good man. And there is definitely something to be said for waiting to have sex until you are married.
My girlfriend became pregnant when she was 19 and I was 20. I stood by her side from the moment I found out. I took her in my arms and told her, "It’s just you and me against the world, babe." And I never faltered. That was 17 years ago. We have a wonderful son who will soon turn 16.
I want you to know something. God will help you if you seek him out with an honest heart. He loves you.
Well Im sorry but he was NOT a good man. That isnt right to leave you in a place like that. You should have better. That was a very as*ho** thing to do. You should Find a good man, a man who wants to have kids with you. Maybe not rigth away, but one day. Im guessing he just didnt want the responsibility. Maybe he could be a better man one day but right now he seems to irisponsible. Dont worry to much about it, stay strong and find someone who will treat you and your children right
Because every little thing, is gonna be alright, peace.
When guys leave you when your pregnant it usually means he is defiantly not the right guy and/or he just is not ready to commit to being a father. I suggest, if you get a new guy, talk with him before you decide to get pregnant. If you want to get a new guy, you’ll probably want to talk about it with your kids.
because he was not the right man to have a child with.
I am so sorry this happen to you! I am in your same situation and you should be honest with your son, and let him know that you would never want to hurt a women in that way and stress the importants of being married to him. So that he wont grow up and be a cold hearted man! Do have faith and pray and read your bible and he will help you get through this:) Mr. right is out there for you so stay strong:^)