How do I tell my mom that I’m back with my ex bf again?
Okay lil background i’ve been together with my bf for almost 2 years now and we broke up and i moved bac home with my mom and step dad but suddenly we started talking again and now were together again but the thing is my mom doesnt know and i think she will be pissed to know that were back togehter again but i dont know how to tell her i feel like if i tell her she wont talk to me and i would have a lot of heat on my back.
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"Mom, I’m back together with ____. I know you may not support our relationship but it was a decision that we both made and that’s how it’s going to be and I hope you can learn to love him as I do"
I was in the same spot once, and that’s what I said almost word for word, and it worked beautifully on my part. Good luck!
I have a LOT of experience with this and to be honest i am going through the same exact situation myself but mine is more in depth. Just be honest with your mom tell her how you feel and make her understand and listen. if you have a problem doing that by yourself, have a friend or someone who makes you feel comfortable with you. Even though it is best to do it in person, you could also write her a note explaining the situation to her letting her know that you don’t want you decision to affect your relationship with her. She’s your mother and even though sh may not show or admit it right away, she understands and will accept it and love you either way =)p
Tell you what, never mind what your Mum thinks but tell you what I think. Time you took responsibility for your own choices and decisions. If you can’t be comfortable with your choices then don’t worry about what others think but ask yourself why you are uncomfortable by your own decisions.
Just tell your mom that you are going to try and work through the problems you had and that you plan to take things slow until you can see if it is worth working it out. She is your mom and she should understand. Good luck and like I said, take it slow and see where things go.
If you broke up because he was mean or abused you in any way, or cheated on you, or if he’s on drugs or something, your mom would have every reason to be upset. She wants what’s best for you. If you broke up for some other reason then she will probably ask you if you’re sure you want to get back with him but allow you to make up your own mind. If I were you I’d take things a little slow this time just to be sure. Don’t rush to move back in with him. Make sure the problems are resolved first or you’ll probably just break up again.
Respect your mother