how do you know if your ex girlfriend wants back with you, or if she is playing games with you? help ladies!?
ugh im so confused, my ex gf and i have a wierd story….
i’ll start from a month ago.
she is 17 and i am 19. she broke up with me a little over a month and a half ago, after doing so, me and her hung out still, had sex, dates, etc.
but then she went to another guys house and lied to me about it. i found out and was heated, started being mean and everything, she didnt wanna get back with me she said, then about 2 weeks later, she wanted me back. we get back, but i break up with her a day afterwords cuz i was so disgusted still.
but i told her its cuz im still mad and need to think about if she is seriously committed to me.
anyway i end up wanting her back shortly, and she said she fell out of love with me etc, but we had sex, i ended up getting her a bra, dress, flowers, cookies, homemade card. then she ignores me the day after that and changed her number!!!
4 days later she calls me saying she misses me.
then she ignores me another day, and calls me last night saying she misses me!
i told her i want her back but she keeps ignoring that and doesnt want me?
does she want me back or what?
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im sorry but it really sounds like shes using you = / any girl that will still fool around with a guy after she said she doesnt want to go out with him mostly only cares about sex. faithful girls play hard to get, sexually as well….
best you find someone else who respects you. good luck to you
read this to yourself and think is she using me???
It obvious to me that she is i mean she gets you to buy her a bunch of stuff and then ignores you! Don’t let her do this. She is not worth it and you can do better. Move on to a girl who can’t be bought!
Sounds like way too much drama…too much back and forth. I suggest finding a girl who knows her own mind and doesn’t play games.
Why are you letting her treat you this way? You need to stand up for yourself.
You need to give her TWO choices and say this "Either we get back together now, and you are 100% committed to me, or we don’t speak, write, e-mail, text ever again."
She needs to choose. If she doesn’t, then she doesn’t deserve your time.
You WILL find someone else. Respect yourself and don’t just give sex to anybody. That’s personal and something for a serious adult relationship.
Good Luck.
dude it seems like she’s just toying with your feelings, because she probably knows you feel for her.
you should go and tell her to meet you in person and ask her what she really wants and also put what you feel in the conversation, tell her what’s up with you etc etc.
Hon, she’s playing games with you in order to get what she wants. She’s aware of your feelings for her & she uses that against you. I think you deserve better than her, by the way you talk. So just tell her it’s time that you both moved on. You will find a girl that really cares for you & do sweet little things for you like you do her. Best Wishes!
Alright well the way I look at it is, She’s not completely over you. She might be using you to get over you, I know that sounds really strange but I’ve done it before. She might still be attatched to you but is slowly trying to forget you. That’s why she has these random moments of regret where she calls talking about how much she misses you, but if she’s ignoring the whole back together thing that’s just simply because that’s not what she wants.
foreal , my girlfriend of 2 yrsrecently broke up with me 4 weeks ago, for no apparent reason, but im not gonna lie, our relationship has been fucked upp, we nver cheated or anything like that , her fam just doesntlike me, and ive been having fuckups w girls while i was drunk, but 3 days ago she calls me , after ive beenmesssed up in da head depressed , crying , and feeling really down, but we made love 2 days in a row, she told me she loves me, made future plans, like she was on up on me, she looked more in love than ever! but yest after she got off of work she didnt anser my calls or nothing,she called me after 5 hours passed or after she was out doing her! so i didnt answer till today, she was pissed and once again she cut my poor dumb in love self off!!! so foreal i think im being played with emotionally…….and itt sucks cause theres alot of girls out there, and im just stuck on on
Listening to your story made me confused, too. As what i know, i can say that she just needs you, but she doesnt love you, My advice for you is get rid of her, the sooner the better, or else the one who will get hurts is you!