Comments on: What can I do to try to fall in love with my husband again? http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1102/what-can-i-do-to-try-to-fall-in-love-with-my-husband-again/ Sat, 11 Feb 2012 14:09:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Baby #1 due Valentines Day!!! http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1102/what-can-i-do-to-try-to-fall-in-love-with-my-husband-again/comment-page-1/#comment-2412 Baby #1 due Valentines Day!!! Mon, 10 Aug 2009 07:13:40 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1102/what-can-i-do-to-try-to-fall-in-love-with-my-husband-again/#comment-2412 I cant give you a whole lot of advice on this, but I will suggest this- Read the book "The wedding" by Nicolas sparks. The book is about a man trying to get his wife to fall back into love with him. Look, every marriage goes through this, and i dont think its that you two are not in love anymore, its just that things are starting to get very repetitive, and nothing new is going on- like you said, stale, and if you dont work to keep it exciting, your marriage will falter. Sometimes all it takes is getting back into the old times. Like going out to the place where you first met, or even sending him sexy text messages showing just enough skin to tempt him while you are at work, or he is (if hes at work, it will drive him CRAZY and he will be begging for you when he gets home). Try being a little more spontaneous with your sex life, or with anything really- like going on a spur of the moment trip somewhere romantic that you will both enjoy. Leave him little notes around the house to find, or give him love coupons- those are always very fun! or you can get a game from spencers, to spice up your sex a little bit if you have not used a game like that already. The thing you need to remember is, love is always love, and you shouldnt confuse things getting "old" with falling out of love- all you guys need is a breath of fresh air in your relationship, and little things do wonders. Big things are overrated and dont help a relationship when it needs it the most, its the little gestures and activities that make it sweet and fun and exciting, and more like it was when you were new together. Just be sure that you truly love him still- because if you dont, then trying to make it less "boring" will only make things worse, and wont help anything. So be sure you really do still love him, and if you do, the two of you just need to get back to being spontaneous and being the sweet little love birds im sure the two of you were when you first got together. Good Luck!!!! I cant give you a whole lot of advice on this, but I will suggest this- Read the book "The wedding" by Nicolas sparks. The book is about a man trying to get his wife to fall back into love with him.

Look, every marriage goes through this, and i dont think its that you two are not in love anymore, its just that things are starting to get very repetitive, and nothing new is going on- like you said, stale, and if you dont work to keep it exciting, your marriage will falter.

Sometimes all it takes is getting back into the old times. Like going out to the place where you first met, or even sending him sexy text messages showing just enough skin to tempt him while you are at work, or he is (if hes at work, it will drive him CRAZY and he will be begging for you when he gets home). Try being a little more spontaneous with your sex life, or with anything really- like going on a spur of the moment trip somewhere romantic that you will both enjoy.

Leave him little notes around the house to find, or give him love coupons- those are always very fun! or you can get a game from spencers, to spice up your sex a little bit if you have not used a game like that already.

The thing you need to remember is, love is always love, and you shouldnt confuse things getting "old" with falling out of love- all you guys need is a breath of fresh air in your relationship, and little things do wonders. Big things are overrated and dont help a relationship when it needs it the most, its the little gestures and activities that make it sweet and fun and exciting, and more like it was when you were new together.

Just be sure that you truly love him still- because if you dont, then trying to make it less "boring" will only make things worse, and wont help anything. So be sure you really do still love him, and if you do, the two of you just need to get back to being spontaneous and being the sweet little love birds im sure the two of you were when you first got together.

Good Luck!!!!

]]> By: Jays Wife 4 Life http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1102/what-can-i-do-to-try-to-fall-in-love-with-my-husband-again/comment-page-1/#comment-2413 Jays Wife 4 Life Mon, 10 Aug 2009 07:13:40 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1102/what-can-i-do-to-try-to-fall-in-love-with-my-husband-again/#comment-2413 Try reminiscing about old times and things ya used to do. Bring out old pics and confront him with them. Play fight with him (aka pillow fight) to enlighten your spirits and shed the tension. If I think of anything else Ill be sure to edit.. hope I helped for now. Good luck Try reminiscing about old times and things ya used to do. Bring out old pics and confront him with them. Play fight with him (aka pillow fight) to enlighten your spirits and shed the tension. If I think of anything else Ill be sure to edit.. hope I helped for now. Good luck

]]> By: s b http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1102/what-can-i-do-to-try-to-fall-in-love-with-my-husband-again/comment-page-1/#comment-2414 s b Mon, 10 Aug 2009 07:13:40 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1102/what-can-i-do-to-try-to-fall-in-love-with-my-husband-again/#comment-2414 Be paitent Be natural Try to visit old and sweet memorable places, where both of you met Ansincere effort may respose, but take time. Be paitent
Be natural
Try to visit old and sweet memorable places, where both of you met
Ansincere effort may respose, but take time.

]]> By: Volks http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1102/what-can-i-do-to-try-to-fall-in-love-with-my-husband-again/comment-page-1/#comment-2415 Volks Mon, 10 Aug 2009 07:13:40 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1102/what-can-i-do-to-try-to-fall-in-love-with-my-husband-again/#comment-2415 It will never be like when you first met, but you can get the love back. What you need to do is act towards your husband like you are head over heels in love with him. For a while, it will be forced and you won't really be feeling it, but just do it. After a short amount of time, the way you are acting towards him will be the way you feel towards him. I know it sounds silly, but it works. I read it in a magazine once, and it's always worked for me. Marriages have ups and downs. You're in a "down" right now, so you need to do the work to bring it back up. It will never be like when you first met, but you can get the love back. What you need to do is act towards your husband like you are head over heels in love with him.

For a while, it will be forced and you won’t really be feeling it, but just do it. After a short amount of time, the way you are acting towards him will be the way you feel towards him.

I know it sounds silly, but it works. I read it in a magazine once, and it’s always worked for me.

Marriages have ups and downs. You’re in a "down" right now, so you need to do the work to bring it back up.

]]> By: Stacy Da Fla Gator http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1102/what-can-i-do-to-try-to-fall-in-love-with-my-husband-again/comment-page-1/#comment-2416 Stacy Da Fla Gator Mon, 10 Aug 2009 07:13:40 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1102/what-can-i-do-to-try-to-fall-in-love-with-my-husband-again/#comment-2416 Well what really worked for me and my husband was a cruise. It was different because we were away from everything and calls were so expensive we didn't even call home to check on the kids. This was after six years of marriage. And now we are a month away from our 10 year anniversary and things are better than they were when we got married. Another thing that was fun and brought back that old new love feeling. We had an affair but with each other. He would call me from a pay phone and act like someone else and we would go out on a dates. He asked questions like he did when we first got together like what were my interest. He brought me flowers and we just role played. It was exciting. Well what really worked for me and my husband was a cruise. It was different because we were away from everything and calls were so expensive we didn’t even call home to check on the kids. This was after six years of marriage. And now we are a month away from our 10 year anniversary and things are better than they were when we got married. Another thing that was fun and brought back that old new love feeling. We had an affair but with each other. He would call me from a pay phone and act like someone else and we would go out on a dates. He asked questions like he did when we first got together like what were my interest. He brought me flowers and we just role played. It was exciting.

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