Comments on: Do you think i will ever love again?

By: Anna

Anna — Mon, 10 Aug 2009 08:56:40 +0000

Maybe you just haven’t found the right guy yet. I went through the same thing I dated a guy for 3 years and we broke up and it took about a year and 20 different guys before I found my husband. We only dated like 2 months and I knew he was the one, we got married and I have been happy since. It’s been 2 years. Just keep looking and I promise you will find the one.

By: maggiewilkey

maggiewilkey — Mon, 10 Aug 2009 08:56:40 +0000

yes,I promise you will love again. and truthfully you were not in love before, but merely infatuated. everytime you think of him. be gald you had your time with him, and then move on. don’t let this stop you from having happiness with someone inthe future, BUT < not right now…and stop sleeping with guys, this does not make them love you…

By: spam_free_he_he

spam_free_he_he — Mon, 10 Aug 2009 08:56:40 +0000

Well………that’s up to you

I can tell you this, if you continue to behave as you have since you broke up, the answer will be "NO"!

You’re trying to dull the pain of withdrawal and rejection with casual sex, a couple or problems with this:

1) it doesn’t work. (or is very temporary), as you’ve found out
2) this is destroying your ability to love yourself, (much less anyone else)

If you continue to behave like a slut, you’ll continue to be used and discarded.

Go through the pain, figure out what didn’t work, and why, decide that you are worthy of love,and find someone who truly cares for you, is willing to wait to have sex, that will give themselves to you exclusively, and that you can become one together,

Yes, it can happen again, but it takes WORK, it doesn’t just "happen", the first step is for you to decide that you worthy of love, (a direct reflection of that is when you start behaving that way).

Luck

By: Casey Lea A

Casey Lea A — Mon, 10 Aug 2009 08:56:40 +0000

I still had those strong feelings for my first love even after I was married, but life went on and years went by and it was just a thing of the past. (Now divorced) Don’t look back. Don’t feel bad about yourself. I want to fall in love with the right person too, but I’m an a’hole magnet…there are a lot of frogs out there! You have to let go of your "dreams" of him…it’s over. You can’t feel excited over someone new with him occupying your thoughts, plus you may be judging them based on your relationship with your ex and that is not healthy for new growth…Just as you must take off old plant growth for it to thrive. Once you prune it, it will give you the best flowers and fruits, etc. See? Also, remember that most of us go through rejection, so you are not alone in that either.

By: nearvosh94

nearvosh94 — Mon, 10 Aug 2009 08:56:40 +0000

yes, love is a very complicated, beatufull and horrible thing.
i was at a party with my gf of 2 years, and at that party we got into a fight… and she ended up snogging some other guy!.. he ended up in hospital and i ended up on probation (woops)
but i thought i was never gna love again, i was full of hatred. i lost my abillity to hold long conversations, ive lost my confidence.. and i was depressed..

untill..

i went to a acting class.. and there she was.. an angel.. i had fallen for her..

but i still cant hold a convo any more.. and i still lack confidence so ive never been able to talk to her… but i have been to other girls now (but they have fallen for me.. gulp lol)

but anyway..

the point is.. you will