Marriage and Kids, how would you surprise your family and friends?
My BF was married to a bi polar woman when he 21. She was not able to conceive. I was in many dead end relationships.o sum it up we were in relationships where our needs and wants came 2nd. Were both now 32. Him and I are sad and jealous when friends and family find out they are having children. We have wanted a child since we were barely teenagers. We are an Uncle and Aunt to about 50 children and often have them stay with us or watch them. I have worked with children in a pediatric ward. We are going to have a justice of the peace marry us, start trying for a kid and then have a renewal ceremony with friends and family present. The reason being, we don’t want to wait years to save up for a wedding, we want children. Do any other ideas come to mind? We want to surprise our friends and family’s and HAVE NOT told anyone of our plans since they bug us about marriage and kids.
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My uncle and aunt sent a daiper to all the family…in it they pinned a note that read. something like" I will be here june 5th, i look forward to seeing you…………..( grandma, aunt tracy, whoever you sent it to) the family had a good time trying to figure out who was ahving thebaby. B/c there was no return address..there was just the hint of I look forward to seeing ( name).
go elope and get knocked up and just send the babies photo on the invite to your reception!! that would be a GREAT suprise!
Tell everyone you know that you are having a really big surprise party. When they all get there say okay he’s going to be here any minute. Everyone is now facing the door and you are in the back of the crowd. Hubby sneaks in the back. You both scream SURPRISE! pull a string, a banner unrolls behind you that says "We’re getting married" and everyone laughs. The music starts and the party is on. This reverse surprise party will be the talk of the family for years. hahaha
I wish I was there.
Cheers and good luck on your wedding!
Please never have kids out of wedlocke. You never know what the future holds for you both. i don’t know of anywhere that regonized common law marriages. If they do you will still only get child support.
Be smart an do your planning the right way.The child only suffers in the long run if there was to be any separating.
You sound low class to me.
tell them the bi polar ex wife is carrying your husbands child…that would be a big surprise!