How do i get my girlfriend to love me again?
I’ve been with my girl since 11-18-03 and up until feb. 2007 i broke up with her because we had so many problems and they just kept going up from there. but since i broke up with her she always asked me to come back to her. until early june i told her i wanted to get back with her and she said yes. but now she acts different and told me that she loves me but not as much as she used to. and to tell the truth i love this girl with all my heart. so now she tells me she doesn’t feel the same and she said within a month she is going to see if she wants to be with me. now i dont know what to do. i love this girl and i know me leaving her was a coward thing to do. but please i’m asking for help. please especially the girls out there….How can i get my girlfriend to love me again and within a month cause thats how long she is giving me time. Please hlep
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Time to break out the little guns. Maybe most people would tell you to plan a romantic dinner at your favorite place, but I don’t know how important that is. It sounds like you really care about her, but instead of going for a home run, just try to keep it simple. Every day, do something different for her. Pay attention to her. Look for all the things you like in her, and when you see them, say so! Girls love compliments, and if you’re sincere about it, it could go a long way. If you don’t see her every day, find one thing to complement her on each time you see her. Focus on individual aspects (hair, dress, scent) instead of generalities so that she knows you’re sincere. Sometimes saying things like "you are so beautiful" and "you are so wonderful" just sound flattering instead of complimentary. Surprise her every once in a while. Maybe write her little notes. Send her a card. Planning little things like this is nice, because there’s not all this pressure riding on one big date or gift that is supposed to be a cure-all, and if one of your little things goes wrong, you have plenty of opportunities to make up for it later. It sounds like she wants to see what you’re made of, and this month you have a golden opportunity to do just that. Remember, patience is a virtue, and this strategy may take time, but in the end I think it will lead to the best results.
love can not be bought, gotten, made. it just happens.
Tell her exactly what you just said here. It sounds like she’s just trying to punish you. I hope it works out for you.
She’s probably experiencing something that you experienced with her before: the falling in and out of love.
You can’t force a connection with her. If she wants to end it, then learn to let go.
Sometimes, you need to set a person free to know if you’re really meant to be.
take her out on a date, do you guys have special date place or something cute that you use to do when you guys were going out?…if she doesnt wanna go on a date because shes not ready, convince her that is a friends thing….
if you cant think of anything, take her to a nice resturant and treat her nice
once uve had dinner, talk to her, heart to heart and tell her how you really feel and basically waht you just said in the post….tell her how you truly feel about her and ask her if shes willing to get back together and give it another shot and ask her to give you a chance, because its only right
This is probably not the answer that you are looking for…but I believe it is what you need to do. My advice to you is to be careful NOT to try and force love. It will only put more distance in between the two of you. No woman likes it when a man tries too hard or gets overly sentimental. Some romance is good…but it has to be limited. Why us women work like that I don’t know. If you are treating her any differently that you used to, which I am sure you are because your feelings have changed so dramatically, she isn’t going to be able to look at you the way she used to because YOU ARE DIFFERENT. So I guess what I am saying is just be you. Don’t act like you are trying too hard and don’t act like you are desperate for her to stay. Don’t smother her,,ya know? I really hope things work out for you. I know what it is like to realize that the one you let go is the one you wanted all along. Best of Luck
Lisa