Comments on: Do you think my ex-husband and I will ever love again ?

By: naatia

naatia — Sat, 15 Aug 2009 16:09:02 +0000

Definitely something is in the cooking. Some times you do not appreciate something until you loose it. I am of the opinion that you son’s dad needs you back. Like you said, you were both young and inexperience, now you are more matured and have both gained experience in your different relationships. He is more disciplined now that is why he can allow you into his home with your son and others. It is even easier for you all to make a come back now that you are free, sooner or later one of you will come out to the open and you will appreciate your romance more than before.

By: Alex R

Alex R — Sat, 15 Aug 2009 16:09:02 +0000

I think you should wait some time just to see how things move, is good that you sleep at his house but also be carefull because you might be sending the wrong message to him and your kids, just play safe and don’t be to close, if in 6 months or so things keep being nice and you feel comfortable then i guess you should talk to him and try to move back with him…good luck

By: Peter M

Peter M — Sat, 15 Aug 2009 16:09:02 +0000

Make sure you are not rebounding…
Why did you divorce in the first place?
Why did he get the child?

Deep down you have not changed, nor has he.
But perhaps the endurance and patients for another have.

Perhaps being totally honest with your ex about this is a good start.

Or you could invite them on a picnic, and make a move on him?

But, I ‘d sugget telling him how how much you admire him, and how much you respect you him….and discuss your feelings openly and honestly.

By: i_ate_sponge_bob

i_ate_sponge_bob — Sat, 15 Aug 2009 16:09:02 +0000

It sounds like a very likely possibility.

I wish you all the luck in the world, try talking to him though you might get a pleasant surprise, certainly sounds that way to me!

By: LIPPIE

LIPPIE — Sat, 15 Aug 2009 16:09:02 +0000

I would enjoy the time you have there and see how it goes. You both love each other and maybe you just needed time to both grow up. How does he treat your other child? If he can and does treat him good, then maybe he is trying to let you know that he wants to start over again. I hope you are not giving false hope for your son. I don’t think he is interested in another woman or he would not invite you to spend time at the house. You might want to sit down and act like adults and see what is really going on. You could ask him why he wants you to stay there, maybe he will let you know his true feelings.