Will you ever love again?
I want to know if there are any people out there who feel incapable of loving again.
I have met a couple of really great guys since I broke up w/ my ex 1.5 years ago . . . but I cannot take it to the next level. They wanted to, and they deserved it, but I cant let my heart go again after being hurt so much.
Does anyone else feel they will not love again, not because of other circumstances, but only because of their own will?
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I feel the same way as you. It’s hard to trust again especially if you’ve been extremely hurt. I like to think that if I find the right person it might happen again but when I honestly think about it, I doubt it’ll ever happen.
If you do not let yourself love another guy again then the reality is you will lose at the end. You cannot change the past but you can learn from it. The problems that took place in your past relationship can be used to make stronger bonding in your new relationships.
I love a guy, and I’m in love with another guy. Unfortunately for me, neither one wants me, and I’m not really able to love anyone else.
Hopefully in time that will change.
No, not likely, and yes, I have similar feelings, sadly.
Sounds like you’re still grieving the loss of your love. It’s probably not entirely your own will here – your heart may not be ready for that kind of vulnerability. Sounds familiar – your heart will know when it’s ready and deserving to be loved again – and your head will eventually catch up and be willing to risk again.
I try not to love again but unfortuantly I’m failing
I’m facing this myself right now. I don’t want to get hurt again. My heart has been shattered so many times that no one can mend it back together. Well that was my thinking about 1 year ago when I met this woman who completely changed my world. Now we are not together, but I want to open my heart for her. I’m trying to take the easy route, and make her my friend, but I can’t help but want her even more. I still think about whether I will fully be able to commit my heart to loving someone else. It’s not easy, and believe me you will be tested almost everyday. Good luck staying strong, and not allowing your heart to continue to get broken.
I have never got to love anyone as a lover YET! OMG but i want to!
I can’t help but fall in love- I certainly couldn’t will myself to prevent it. But I’ve also learned to deal with the aftermath, i.e., that when it’s over, it’s over.
No. I’ve decided that if I can’t be with this one person that I’m completely head-over-heels for than I don’t want to be with anyone! He makes me happy.
We got separated due to our living circumstances. I’m on the east coast and he’s in the midwest. We met at a summer job and I never really wanted to start a relationship with anyone due to the whole summer-only situation. But love is just one of those things you can’t prevent from happening. It just happened. He’s such a likable guy. I came back to the east coast when the summer was over and we haven’t seen each other since. The more time that passes the more I can’t stand to be away from him. I thought I would get over it but I never really have. I miss him so much!
In fact I was just at the local Fourth of July celebration but left early because he wasn’t there. It’s just not the same without him.
I think every one has that at least once in their life. You litterly feel that you can’t take the chance. One day it will happen though, you won’t plan it you won’t even think about it. It will be the right person for you at that time. It still may not be the love of your life but you will want to share a part of you. Then your healing will be almost done. Some people heal slow because they love so deeply, so complete it does take time. When your heart and soul is ready it will happen. Then when that person comes into your life you’ll have a moment of doubts again but the new love will help you overcome it. Then you will be able to give it all again. Have patience.
After loss, pain and suicidal depression I believed I would not love again. Hatred lingered in spite of treatment but as I gradually learned to forgive my late partner’s hateful family and myself I found that I could find new friendship and that love might follow.
Rose P.