Would you tell a white lie to save a marriage ? I found myself in a position in which i was forced to do it?
What would you do if you were in such a position ?
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NEVER LIE
honesty is the root of all good !
plz be Honest, and i am sure that whatever was done, honesty can and will fix it ! being honest, is how God wants us, so be honest !
there’s no such thing as a white lie, a lie is a lie, white or black, it’s wrong !
I want you to imagine yourself lying this *white Lie*, and you got away with whatever happened, a few years later, your partner found out that you lied to him and that the problem does exist, but add to it that you LIED !!!
that would sacrifice and ruin everything !
Please, think twice before lying, it’s no use, being honest is the best way. Get a diary, write what would happen if you lied and what would happen if you did not … compare your results, and put in consideration that in order to save a marriage , it takes 2 not just one, so your partner WILL be understanding.
This is just an advice, you can do whatever you want for sure, it’s your life.
Hope everything turns out good for you and for everyone you love.
God Bless.
yes, and I would avoid putting myself in that position again and get to the root of the reason that made me do it in the first place.
I would do the same if it’s something little or not intentional.
I may not do it if it’s not the first mistake or it’s expected to be repeated again. I general it depends on the situation and the couple, but in general yes I would do it.
yes i can do this
It depends really, if it’s a lesser evil then yeah i probably would. But if it’s a big evil then no.
mmm … i guess you wont like my answer …
if i was in that situation … as you asked would you tell ?
i wouldnt lie … there is no white lies … specially in marriage … because …. who whom loves the other so much … wouldnt lie to the other … you wouldnt accept him lieing to you … seconed … if its so big to the limit that you may lose your marriage … then probably it would mean alot for him …. imagine if he knew from any other source ??
third … if you trust his love to you … you shouldnt be affraid of telling the truth … if he really loves you .. he would be angry … and he might explode like a volcano but in the end he will forgive you …
i forgot to add .. thats the advantage of being deeply in love before marriage … then you can forgive him and he would forgive you …
I would only if it’s a white lie. U did the best choice Moonrise don’t regret that.
i’ll put your white lies at the black list ,
so later just take care
of course i would but depends on the situation and the pp involved in the issue