How do I get my wife to love me again?
I have spent the last five years married but I made all the wrong moves. Everything that shows how to be a good husband I did the opposite. My wife has stoped loving me completely now. If I am ready to change how can I show her and win her love back? I’ve lied so many times she doesnt believe in me nor does she care to.
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Prove it!! thats all you can do!
Hate to say it, but once someone is out of love such as your wife is there really is no turning back. I would suggest you learn from your mistakes and go your seperate ways. There really isn’t much you can do at this point, if you lied before… how will she believe you now?
Five years.
You are a pretty slow learner.
Or else you are one of those people who prefers the challenge of ‘winning’ love over the deep and abiding love one needs to create a real marriage.
I suggest you leave her alone and let her find happiness on her own. You are not the right man for her and she knows it. Respect that and go find another partner.
Ya know, the only reason you want to gain her love back is because you lost it. You didn’t care about it when you had it, now that you don’t have it anymore you will do ANYTHING to get it back. The truth is you really do not love her at all. And the best thing for you to do is to leave the poor woman alone and allow her to find a man to be happy with, one that she does deserve. You however, will do this to her again if you ever do gain her love back. Which doesn’t sound too likely unfortunately. You need to focus on your lying issues. The hardest person to be honest with is YOURSELF – and to sit and have a TRUTHFUL conversation with yourself. Try it, it’s not at all easy. Try to fix yourself so that MAYBE you will be good for someone else. You cannot and should not be allowed to have what you want. You ruined your chances.
Sorry to say.
Learn from this experience and express your love for your wife by letting her go. Perhaps you and her weren’t meant to be, yet she, nor you knows it, as you are too close to the situation….You can say you are sorry a gazillion times, and still cannot erase the damage already done, Although she can perhaps forgive you, her mind and heart unfortunately won’t let her forget. Do what is best for her, and for you, and move on. There is someone wonderful for you each, waiting to start over, with the lessons and life experiences you both have gained, it is a sure bet!
proofs in the pudding!!!! Dont talk about it do it!!!!
brother, Just stop trying so hard. what you do is just Reform your ways find God than everything else will fall into place. You love her so stop saying sorry and just do. you’ve been with her X amount of years so only you know what she likes and dislikes..do different stuff take her out help around the house do some chores she would do….cook for her candle light dinner dance with her after dinner to the song from Ghost the movie or the song from dirty dancing…be different brother you be surprised she look at you like a new man. hope i helped you
Be the husband you would like to have… also have in mind that what you did in 5 years cannot be fixed in a day… so you have long way to go…and I mean LONG
Be honest… be truthful… maybe you can still do something about it.