Comments on: After 15 years of marriage my wife wants to leave I love her with my whole heart can anybody help? http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1236/after-15-years-of-marriage-my-wife-wants-to-leave-i-love-her-with-my-whole-heart-can-anybody-help/ Your guide to getting your ex lover back into your arms Fri, 19 Mar 2010 22:00:40 +0100 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: piper http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1236/after-15-years-of-marriage-my-wife-wants-to-leave-i-love-her-with-my-whole-heart-can-anybody-help/comment-page-1/#comment-10020 piper Mon, 23 Nov 2009 15:34:52 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1236/after-15-years-of-marriage-my-wife-wants-to-leave-i-love-her-with-my-whole-heart-can-anybody-help/#comment-10020 After a 40 year marriage and 37 years of living in hell, my wife finally informed me she had no interest in sex.. I would beg, plead, wine and dine her and still only received enough intimacy from her to get by.. On top of it all, she began working nights after the 3rd year of marriage and never went back to days. She initially told me it was temporary until the kids were self sufficient.. It never happened. I wake up alone, go to bed alone, spend my nights and weekends alone..Now, after all these years, I've come to rrealize she just doesn't love me and I have fallen out of love with her.. We don't speak to eachother any more and are in counseling.. I want to end the relationship and marriage to get out of this situation but she says it's worth saving.. My loss of happiness has affected my outlook on life in a negagtive way.. I just want to be free of her and persue new friends, which I have lost, and be confident in myself so I can be happy again. Any suggestions would be good for me at this point.. Thanks After a 40 year marriage and 37 years of living in hell, my wife finally informed me she had no interest in sex.. I would beg, plead, wine and dine her and still only received enough intimacy from her to get by.. On top of it all, she began working nights after the 3rd year of marriage and never went back to days. She initially told me it was temporary until the kids were self sufficient.. It never happened. I wake up alone, go to bed alone, spend my nights and weekends alone..Now, after all these years, I’ve come to rrealize she just doesn’t love me and I have fallen out of love with her.. We don’t speak to eachother any more and are in counseling..

I want to end the relationship and marriage to get out of this situation but she says it’s worth saving.. My loss of happiness has affected my outlook on life in a negagtive way.. I just want to be free of her and persue new friends, which I have lost, and be confident in myself so I can be happy again.

Any suggestions would be good for me at this point..

Thanks

]]> By: catchmeifyoucan http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1236/after-15-years-of-marriage-my-wife-wants-to-leave-i-love-her-with-my-whole-heart-can-anybody-help/comment-page-1/#comment-4770 catchmeifyoucan Sat, 12 Sep 2009 19:44:53 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1236/after-15-years-of-marriage-my-wife-wants-to-leave-i-love-her-with-my-whole-heart-can-anybody-help/#comment-4770 she must have been cheating on you for a while or something went wrong. its not you that went wrong if she did cheat thats a typical woman you can always find someone better out there for you if things dont go right with your wife. if i was you i would not wait around if shes been gone awhile. i been married and divorce and have seen everything.They say they change but it doesnt. they will be the same way later down the road.It took me a while to realize it myself, but as soon as i did realize i was the stupid one waiting around on something that hurt me. After all that time i wasting my time i didnt realize what good i had in front of me wanting me. I started talking to this girl i met and i really liked her and like i said i regret not tellin her how i really felt. i wasted all my time worrying about my ex wife when i shouldnt have been. im happier now and it took a while to get there. it was worth it. best wishes she must have been cheating on you for a while or something went wrong. its not you that went wrong if she did cheat thats a typical woman you can always find someone better out there for you if things dont go right with your wife. if i was you i would not wait around if shes been gone awhile. i been married and divorce and have seen everything.They say they change but it doesnt. they will be the same way later down the road.It took me a while to realize it myself, but as soon as i did realize i was the stupid one waiting around on something that hurt me. After all that time i wasting my time i didnt realize what good i had in front of me wanting me. I started talking to this girl i met and i really liked her and like i said i regret not tellin her how i really felt. i wasted all my time worrying about my ex wife when i shouldnt have been. im happier now and it took a while to get there. it was worth it.

best wishes

]]> By: george http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1236/after-15-years-of-marriage-my-wife-wants-to-leave-i-love-her-with-my-whole-heart-can-anybody-help/comment-page-1/#comment-4546 george Thu, 10 Sep 2009 03:40:36 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1236/after-15-years-of-marriage-my-wife-wants-to-leave-i-love-her-with-my-whole-heart-can-anybody-help/#comment-4546 My wife is telling me that she no longer loves me, and that she wants to leave. We've been married going on fifteen years. We have an eleven year old, and a three year old. The children play a huge role in this equation. I adore my wife. I do not believe that she is having an affair. The problems in our relationship are a good deal my own. As much as I love her, I haven't quite learned how to express my love in a way that has been hindered by issues I've had from the past. Yet, our beautiful children are people whom I do not want to effect. They both adore me as well as their mother. A broken home may have a great impact on our children that I wish not to subject them to. Preferably, I would prefer that my wife and I attend counseling in order to allow some one else to offer suggestions for a solution. This is very difficult, and I am willing to do whatever it takes to make our lives work together, and for the absolute best. My wife is telling me that she no longer loves me, and that she wants to leave. We’ve been married going on fifteen years. We have an eleven year old, and a three year old. The children play a huge role in this equation. I adore my wife. I do not believe that she is having an affair. The problems in our relationship are a good deal my own. As much as I love her, I haven’t quite learned how to express my love in a way that has been hindered by issues I’ve had from the past. Yet, our beautiful children are people whom I do not want to effect. They both adore me as well as their mother. A broken home may have a great impact on our children that I wish not to subject them to. Preferably, I would prefer that my wife and I attend counseling in order to allow some one else to offer suggestions for a solution. This is very difficult, and I am willing to do whatever it takes to make our lives work together, and for the absolute best.

]]> By: Dan http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1236/after-15-years-of-marriage-my-wife-wants-to-leave-i-love-her-with-my-whole-heart-can-anybody-help/comment-page-1/#comment-4299 Dan Tue, 08 Sep 2009 03:53:51 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1236/after-15-years-of-marriage-my-wife-wants-to-leave-i-love-her-with-my-whole-heart-can-anybody-help/#comment-4299 Pray for your wife.Learn about what love really is from scripture. Try and find what you can do better. I'm working through a similar situation, I'm reading "the love dare". It's helpful. The thing that has helped me the most is the professional counseling however. You need it at least for you even if your wife does not want to go. It will also show her you really care about yourself and your relationship. Don't jump to conclusions and needlessly worry over what may or may not be happening as far as an affair goes. It's easy for guys to assume the worse that and be overwhelmed with a bunch of junk emotion needlessly. Women are complex creatures, there is something going on that needs to be addressed and I pray it works out for you. Pray for your wife.Learn about what love really is from scripture. Try and find what you can do better. I’m working through a similar situation, I’m reading “the love dare”. It’s helpful. The thing that has helped me the most is the professional counseling however. You need it at least for you even if your wife does not want to go. It will also show her you really care about yourself and your relationship. Don’t jump to conclusions and needlessly worry over what may or may not be happening as far as an affair goes. It’s easy for guys to assume the worse that and be overwhelmed with a bunch of junk emotion needlessly. Women are complex creatures, there is something going on that needs to be addressed and I pray it works out for you.

]]> By: robert c http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1236/after-15-years-of-marriage-my-wife-wants-to-leave-i-love-her-with-my-whole-heart-can-anybody-help/comment-page-1/#comment-3502 robert c Wed, 26 Aug 2009 00:07:00 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1236/after-15-years-of-marriage-my-wife-wants-to-leave-i-love-her-with-my-whole-heart-can-anybody-help/#comment-3502 well paze its like this if shes going to bail you cannot do anything to stop it, it take two to make a real relationship. you have to open the door for her and let it end on good terms, if its meant to be she will return, but you dont need to worry about her. you need to focus on you its not healthy nor a good idea to base your self worth on her staying or leaving, you have worth as a person, so let her fly . and you fly as well.. well paze its like this if shes going to bail you cannot do anything to stop it, it take two to make a real relationship. you have to open the door for her and let it end on good terms, if its meant to be she will return, but you dont need to worry about her. you need to focus on you its not healthy nor a good idea to base your self worth on her staying or leaving, you have worth as a person, so let her fly . and you fly as well..

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