Me and my wife have been married for 2 years. How do we make sex exciting again.?
Me and my wife love each other very much but with every day tasks we have gotten in a routine and with our 2 year old we are constantly running around. Any ideas on how to spice things up again?
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I’ve been married for 23 years, and I have literally had sex with my wife thousands of times. Not once has it ever been unexciting; never once have I been having sex and thought, "I’m bored." I can’t imagine what you’re doing during sex that could possibly be unexciting!
Get some toys and try new positions.
Have you tried a donkey punch?
just start kissing each other like you mean it. surprise her with a hot tongue bath and she’ll melt on your face
Try some new positions, type sex positions into google and click on the first one, it shows all the positions you could imagine!
Monkeys
Plan some time away from the child. Get away or get out of your routine life. Start having a weekly "date" night….have grandma and grandpa watch your little one for a few hours. You must invest in each other for your relationship to remain solid
get the grandparents to baby sit for a week end once in a while and spend that time alone ,
it will work.
Get someone of your family (sister, brother,in laws…?) to have your child in their house for a night. Then plan on a romantic date, a nice dinner, go to the beach, and then in the room, play with foods and sex toys,scent the room with a nice scent and put some candles on, remember to turn all phones off, turn on some romantic music, and do a lot of foreplay and go with the flow.
Here is a good way to do this…. take her out dancing and both of you have a few strong drinks, once you have a good buzz on take a cab home. While in the cab keep the flirting going, whisper things in her ear and encourage her to do the same. Sometimes taking the edge off with some alcohol will allow you to express vocally some newer and exciting things to each other. It will make it easier in the future to do this without alcohol because you will have a better line of communication open.
P.S
don’t try to get trashed, you both just need to lessen you inhibitions a bit.
Take a weekend getaway to bring back the romance.
1. You need date night. Where the kid is either sleeping by 8 or being watched by then.
2. You need to text her the things you plan to do with her on date night. Leave her a note on the pillow telling her you something exciting.
3. Do little things to remind her that you remember and are anticipating date night. Buy her some lingerie and leave it for her on the day of date night. Bring her flowers home. Plan to cook dinner yourself that night (or take out – all responsibility on you). Take her somewhere for dinner (make it a suprise and something SHE loves.)
This will help your woman get ‘in the mood’.
Have a threesome.