will he ever love me again?
i have been married for 7 years and with my husband for 15 years. we have 4 children. He decided 2 weeks ago that he doesn’t love me like that anymore. He has kissed and talked to a co worker who is also married with 3 kids. We are living apart right now and he says that he has not been seeing her. He told me we could try counseling even though he feels like we are done. how can love just slip away i think it is her i have been told by several people that she is very manipulative. I want my marriage to work i love him with all my heart i still get butterflies when i see him. I want to workk on our marriage but i just don’t know if he can ever love me again like i love him.
we have only ever been with eachother since we were 14 and 15 i love him with every part of my soul. i don’t want to give up without a fight
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I say give him another chance. Mostly b/c of the kids. See if he can fall in love with you again. It could happen but you’ll probably have to work harder and really make time for your relationship.
I’m kind of in the same situation. My husband and I have been married for 7 years, together for 14. It’s hard to keep a relationship fresh, especially w/ 4 kids. I understand how it is to love someone so much that you don’t want to let them go. Try counseling and if you see that he’s not giving his all or it’s not working then move on. You and your kids will be better off if he doesn’t want to work on your relationship. The kids need to see 2 people that love each other completely. Kids pick up on more than you think. They can sense tension so don’t even talk in front of them if you are talking about working it out.Good Luck!
You can’t make someone love you. They either do or they don’t. At least he is willing to try counseling. Love slips away because you both let it. It takes a tremendous amount of time and energy to keep a relationship a healthy loving one.
you should try the couseling. if u see that he’s not putting effort into working the relationship out then u should just move on. remember be strong for ur children because it will be a hard time for them as well.
You’ve gotta love yourself more. You have to care more about yourself and children more. Love is a choice and a decision. It appears as though your husband has made a decision to leave hi family for lust over another woman. You have to decide whether or not you want a man like this in your life or do you love yourself enough to walk away.
since he has left that woman so y not give him a one last chance as well as for yourself as you still love him…. try and if it really doesnt work, you may give up with no regrets!
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