Comments on: will he ever love me again?

By: abmainer

abmainer — Wed, 26 Aug 2009 13:46:35 +0000

I say give him another chance. Mostly b/c of the kids. See if he can fall in love with you again. It could happen but you’ll probably have to work harder and really make time for your relationship.
I’m kind of in the same situation. My husband and I have been married for 7 years, together for 14. It’s hard to keep a relationship fresh, especially w/ 4 kids. I understand how it is to love someone so much that you don’t want to let them go. Try counseling and if you see that he’s not giving his all or it’s not working then move on. You and your kids will be better off if he doesn’t want to work on your relationship. The kids need to see 2 people that love each other completely. Kids pick up on more than you think. They can sense tension so don’t even talk in front of them if you are talking about working it out.Good Luck!

By: ndnqt1966

ndnqt1966 — Wed, 26 Aug 2009 13:46:35 +0000

You can’t make someone love you. They either do or they don’t. At least he is willing to try counseling. Love slips away because you both let it. It takes a tremendous amount of time and energy to keep a relationship a healthy loving one.

By: piscesgurl

piscesgurl — Wed, 26 Aug 2009 13:46:35 +0000

you should try the couseling. if u see that he’s not putting effort into working the relationship out then u should just move on. remember be strong for ur children because it will be a hard time for them as well.

By: ~Secretrose~

~Secretrose~ — Wed, 26 Aug 2009 13:46:35 +0000

You’ve gotta love yourself more. You have to care more about yourself and children more. Love is a choice and a decision. It appears as though your husband has made a decision to leave hi family for lust over another woman. You have to decide whether or not you want a man like this in your life or do you love yourself enough to walk away.

By: popular2704

popular2704 — Wed, 26 Aug 2009 13:46:35 +0000

since he has left that woman so y not give him a one last chance as well as for yourself as you still love him…. try and if it really doesnt work, you may give up with no regrets!