What if I wanted my ex boyfriend back, and I had no clue how to tell him?
Well I want my most recent ex boyfriend back, and I don’t know how to tell him. Matter of fact I don’t think it will do any good, but we were both at fault in how we ended.
I want him back, but I’d rather do things slowly this time, and not move too fast. I have too many other things in my life to work on, but I want him back.
Do I just be upfront and honest or should I try a different approach?
What would you do?
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If you decide you want to get back with your ex, you must be ready to face not only what has gone wrong with the relationship, but also your part in the break down of the relationship. If you made mistakes then don’t beat yourself up for that. All of us make them, it’s what you do after the mistake that’s consequential.
7 Tips To Get Back With Ex
1. So sit down alone[spin] and take some time to go through what happened and what were the issues that led up to what happened. Don’t [spin]concern yourself too much with what you see as your ex’s mistakes, leave that for the future. Only concern yourself right now with what you can influence.
2. Any mistakes you find in your past behavior, can they be forgiven? Don’t be too eager to get down on yourself and believe that your mistakes are basically unpardonable . You would be amazed at the situations that couples find themselves in and that they afterwards recover from. So don’t think that your mistakes are beyond forgiveness. There is always hope!
3. Try and pin point what was happening in your life at the time that led you to make the mistakes, particularly if it was completely out of character for you. Remember what I said about facing hard truths, if you want to get back with an ex, then you need to do this.
4. You might discover that you were under certain stresses and strains. Perhaps you were under threat at your job? Or you weren’t physically feeling yourself? Or perhaps there were other family issues . Whatever you find when you look back at what happened, you will eventually need to sit down with your ex and explain in detail precisely what you have found.
5. If your mistakes were derived from you just being thoughtless or selfish, then this is something about you and your character that can quite easily be fixed. It will take ongoing monitoring but if you are sincerely committed to getting back with your ex, then it is going to be worthwhile.
6. When you have come to the point where you have begun to gain perspective about your mistakes, then call your ex and arrange a meeting. It is usually better to arrange a face to face meeting somewhere public and neutral because then there is less chance of either of you becoming emotional.
7. So, make sure that you concentrated on what you want to say. Apologize and ask for forgiveness and then listen carefully to what your ex has to say.
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All the best!
i think its both 50/50.u can be honest and found out that he is no longer interested.u will feel embarrassed afterwards but @ least he will know how u feel.take different approach and he might think ure just being friendly.i really think u should be honest and tell the truth