How to get an ex girlfriend back?
basically i went out with this girl for a year+ but through the entire year their were so many problems. we started going out over the summer, then school started back up and we both got extremely over jealous/protective but we still loved each other. we broke up for a month, got back together then she thought i was cheating on her cause i was talking to a couple girls she didn’t like because they were ex’s but i was friends with for years then she threw this giant fit about it so i didn’t call her over the Weekend and she broke up with me and asked me out the next day and said no then she started going out with this other guy and she kept ignoring me so i could never get back with her, then when i got her she said she didn’t deserve me cause of all the trouble i would get in with school and cops, and how she said she couldn’t trust me, and a guy she could actually control, but we had a son together but we had to get an abortion (we were both against it but their was nothing else left to do), and that’s probably whats keeping me attached, we’ve been broken up for 3 months and im still not over her, and all i have is to think about our son, and whenever we talked she would always say she loved me back and missed me but she cant, then would ignore me for another week+ ive tried being strong, ive tried being a bitch, i walked 5 miles in the rain to give her a dozen roses to try…same thing, she tells me to move on but i cant, idk how else i can win her back, any ideas?
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At this point, I don’t think you can. Too many things have become major issues with you two. Some of them extremely painful. With that kind of history either one or both of you could become extremely resentful of the other if you continued this relationship. It’s really hard because of the emotional, physical and mental connection you have with each other, but it is my feeling that you bring out the worst in each other. Let go. Take a deep breath and just let go. You may have to take many many deep breaths, but let it go.
Sorry.
Don’t waste your time man I know it might seem like you need her right now, but if shes gonna treat you like crap just forget about her and move on, find a girl who will treat you right
Hi buddy
Winning back your ex girlfriend is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances to win her back increase dramatically.
Here are few steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:
Don’t Ask Her To Get Back Together
You should never ask her to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!
You’re only shot at getting your ex girlfriend back is to follow the right steps that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.
But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get girls attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.
So don’t ignore her texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can’t even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.
You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show your ex girlfriend that your happiness isn’t dependent on being with her.
Being Jealous Is Not The Way To Go
Listen to me …SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it will probably be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It’s ok if it bothers you, but don’t let it show and don’t call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don’t have any right to tell her what to do.
If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.
Be Flexible
Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. Instead, be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who doesn’t take things too seriously is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again very fast.
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I hope you will get your ex girlfriend soon!