will you ever love somebody the way you did from the beginning again?
dont get me wrong. i have always had strong feelings for my boyfriend of 3+ years, but you know how those first 6 months feel. i still love the heck out of him, but i feel like that connection is dying down. im not loosing interest, but will the love ever spark up again? how can i keep him interested? im not looking to marry for at least 5 more years because of finances. i just wish i had the same relationship.
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no, and you shouldn’t expect to. a relationship should evolve. in the beginning there is passion and discovery and as you spend more time together and learn about each other you form a strong bond of trust and a sense of contentment. you turn that relationship into family and eventually you’ll begin to trust that person with your deepest insecurities, just like you would your mother or brother. of course this means the passion and excitement and discovery is diminished, but it’s replaced with something just as valuable. don’t underestimate your man either. they aren’t aliens, and it’s not completely about sex with them. they need unconditional love from a woman more than we do from a man because it isn’t acceptable for them to open up to their friends the way we can.
ive been with my guy for 10 years. we’ve broken up and got back together and no, i love him but unfortunately not for me. the sexual attraction has decreased 2! but oh well. I think that is just the way it goes
wat u r missing is the intial phase of attraction,at that time everything is perfect because everything is new.u try to please him and he tries to please you,because each person wants the other one to like him and not feel that the other person made some mistake by choosing him/her.wat is happening know is that ur patner is no more formal with you,he expects understanding rather than showing off,love never decreases it grows,the reason u asked this question justifis this fact,u love him so u dnt wanna loose himneways to bring back that excitement in ur relationship,start doing something out of routine,meet him wen he doesn’t expect to c u at all,send him flowers with naughty and loving messages,call up abrubtly to say love you,these are some of the common things which will bring the lost spark you are looking for
Yes. That first love is like a trial run. It’s the love that you will compare all other relationships too good and bad. With out that first love you might never knew what it is you are looking for.
It’s been 2 years since my first love and I broke up. I still care about him but i no longer love him. I am fully over him and very happy with my new boyfriend we are going to be married next year.
Everyone feels like that at the beginning, this is just something you have to accept. But you grow closer and comfortable with a person thats why they say there are different stages of love. If you leave because of this, eventually you will have to leave everybody you date.
Hmm, it needs work from both of you guys to build a strong relationship that lasts through time. Just talk to him, seriously and ask him if he wants to stand by you until….the end of time (or something like that lol ^^). Just straighten things up, and if he’s not sure – give him some time to think it over, and you need it too honey. Time will tell, all I have to say is "try your best and you won’t regret it later". Good luck, I hope I helped ^^