Comments on: How can i fall in love again with my husband? http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1298/how-can-i-fall-in-love-again-with-my-husband/ Sat, 11 Feb 2012 14:09:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Zee-ster http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1298/how-can-i-fall-in-love-again-with-my-husband/comment-page-1/#comment-3975 Zee-ster Wed, 02 Sep 2009 16:07:37 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1298/how-can-i-fall-in-love-again-with-my-husband/#comment-3975 Love is deeper than "being" in it & marriage requires commitment. You've got 9 years with this man & I hate to see you chuck your marriage because your not "in love." Besides being in love is a temporary state, contrary to what people say. Real love emerges over time, after you've weathered some storms together and it's based on friendship & mutual respect. If you want to hold on to your marriage, ditch the friendships with men. That's the beginning of an emotional affair and what they refer to as "playing in traffic." When you give another man your attention, you draw it away from your husband. Good luck working this out. 9 years is a real investment. Think long & hard before you chuck if for a man you don't really know other than he makes you feel good. Besides, feeling good isn't a permanent emotional state either. Love is deeper than "being" in it & marriage requires commitment. You’ve got 9 years with this man & I hate to see you chuck your marriage because your not "in love." Besides being in love is a temporary state, contrary to what people say. Real love emerges over time, after you’ve weathered some storms together and it’s based on friendship & mutual respect. If you want to hold on to your marriage, ditch the friendships with men. That’s the beginning of an emotional affair and what they refer to as "playing in traffic." When you give another man your attention, you draw it away from your husband. Good luck working this out. 9 years is a real investment. Think long & hard before you chuck if for a man you don’t really know other than he makes you feel good. Besides, feeling good isn’t a permanent emotional state either.

]]> By: Forlorn Hope-only 5 suspensions http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1298/how-can-i-fall-in-love-again-with-my-husband/comment-page-1/#comment-3976 Forlorn Hope-only 5 suspensions Wed, 02 Sep 2009 16:07:37 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1298/how-can-i-fall-in-love-again-with-my-husband/#comment-3976 upto both of you to decide to make things work... and it is hard work... you need to take time for yourselves... BUT if your husband isn't interested, you might as well tell him that things need to change or get better... and it takes two to tango... are you romantic??? or do you expect your husband to do all the work??? upto both of you to decide to make things work…

and it is hard work…

you need to take time for yourselves…

BUT if your husband isn’t interested, you might as well tell him that things need to change or get better…

and it takes two to tango… are you romantic??? or do you expect your husband to do all the work???

]]> By: SugarHoneyIcedTea http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1298/how-can-i-fall-in-love-again-with-my-husband/comment-page-1/#comment-3977 SugarHoneyIcedTea Wed, 02 Sep 2009 16:07:37 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1298/how-can-i-fall-in-love-again-with-my-husband/#comment-3977 you have to start dating him again. getting to know him again. you may have to get away from the house, the kids, the responsibilities, and rekindle it that way. you two have probably just been existing lately. you have to find the persons that you were that wanted to be with the other person before life and work took over. watch the outside friendships though. its too easy to develop emotional attachments that could evolve into love outside of marriage and ofcourse adultery. i know, because i did that. take the time out to find each other again. seems like you both have just lost one another. don't look at the negatives you mentioned. when you met him and married him, he was never perfect. you just CHOSE not to see his imperfections. well, make that choice again. you have to start dating him again. getting to know him again. you may have to get away from the house, the kids, the responsibilities, and rekindle it that way. you two have probably just been existing lately.

you have to find the persons that you were that wanted to be with the other person before life and work took over. watch the outside friendships though. its too easy to develop emotional attachments that could evolve into love outside of marriage and ofcourse adultery. i know, because i did that.

take the time out to find each other again. seems like you both have just lost one another. don’t look at the negatives you mentioned. when you met him and married him, he was never perfect. you just CHOSE not to see his imperfections. well, make that choice again.

]]> By: Spindrift http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1298/how-can-i-fall-in-love-again-with-my-husband/comment-page-1/#comment-3978 Spindrift Wed, 02 Sep 2009 16:07:37 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1298/how-can-i-fall-in-love-again-with-my-husband/#comment-3978 I knew, just from reading the title of your question, that you were seeking approbation for your wish to commence an affair. WRONG!!!! You need to take a vacation with your husband and maybe make it a second honeymoon, and you also need to have counseling to get past this marital angst. Your husband needs to go to a physician to make sure he doesn't have some medical problems. I knew, just from reading the title of your question, that you were seeking approbation for your wish to commence an affair. WRONG!!!! You need to take a vacation with your husband and maybe make it a second honeymoon, and you also need to have counseling to get past this marital angst. Your husband needs to go to a physician to make sure he doesn’t have some medical problems.

]]> By: ♥HisBabygirl♥ http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1298/how-can-i-fall-in-love-again-with-my-husband/comment-page-1/#comment-3979 ♥HisBabygirl♥ Wed, 02 Sep 2009 16:07:37 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1298/how-can-i-fall-in-love-again-with-my-husband/#comment-3979 If you really have done all of the above. I don't know why he would be this heartless person. Maybe he has a special friend on the side. Was he ever the man of your dreams?? If you really have done all of the above. I don’t know why he would be this heartless person. Maybe he has a special friend on the side. Was he ever the man of your dreams??

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