Comments on: How can I get my husband to love me again? http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1302/how-can-i-get-my-husband-to-love-me-again/ Your guide to getting your ex lover back into your arms Tue, 16 Mar 2010 14:24:03 +0100 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: keithleyjustin http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1302/how-can-i-get-my-husband-to-love-me-again/comment-page-1/#comment-4003 keithleyjustin Thu, 03 Sep 2009 07:19:33 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1302/how-can-i-get-my-husband-to-love-me-again/#comment-4003 TIME-Maybe but both your trust for each other is gone,for awhile. Get a book called proper care and feeding of husbands then let him read it. Also getting on your knees and praying wouldnt hurt . TIME-Maybe but both your trust for each other is gone,for awhile. Get a book called proper care and feeding of husbands then let him read it. Also getting on your knees and praying wouldnt hurt .

]]> By: BOOP http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1302/how-can-i-get-my-husband-to-love-me-again/comment-page-1/#comment-4004 BOOP Thu, 03 Sep 2009 07:19:33 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1302/how-can-i-get-my-husband-to-love-me-again/#comment-4004 Act like you do not care. Stop doing all the extras- just do what is necessary- freak him out! Make him wonder if you love him anymore- it will work. He is enjoying punishing you and getting all the benefits too, so stop allowing it. No backrubs- let him make his own lunch. Don't ne angry- be cool and collected about the whole thing. Act like you do not care. Stop doing all the extras- just do what is necessary- freak him out! Make him wonder if you love him anymore- it will work. He is enjoying punishing you and getting all the benefits too, so stop allowing it. No backrubs- let him make his own lunch. Don’t ne angry- be cool and collected about the whole thing.

]]> By: Kim http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1302/how-can-i-get-my-husband-to-love-me-again/comment-page-1/#comment-4005 Kim Thu, 03 Sep 2009 07:19:33 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1302/how-can-i-get-my-husband-to-love-me-again/#comment-4005 Not trying to criticize you but why keep bringing up the past, one or both of you should be adult enough to figure out that yesterday is gone. And what are either of you gaining by keeping a running tally of the others screw ups? He may still love you, but the trust that he had for you was destroyed. You have to work at building that back. He is still there with you, which is more than a lot of men would have done. Be open and honest with him about everything and let the past die, every time one of you bring it up it is like tearing the scab off a bad cut, its going to bleed and hurt again and again. Until it will be unrepairable, I wish you all the best. Just keep loving him and eventually, the trust will be returned. Not trying to criticize you but why keep bringing up the past, one or both of you should be adult enough to figure out that yesterday is gone. And what are either of you gaining by keeping a running tally of the others screw ups? He may still love you, but the trust that he had for you was destroyed. You have to work at building that back. He is still there with you, which is more than a lot of men would have done. Be open and honest with him about everything and let the past die, every time one of you bring it up it is like tearing the scab off a bad cut, its going to bleed and hurt again and again. Until it will be unrepairable, I wish you all the best. Just keep loving him and eventually, the trust will be returned.

]]> By: Lady 205 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1302/how-can-i-get-my-husband-to-love-me-again/comment-page-1/#comment-4006 Lady 205 Thu, 03 Sep 2009 07:19:33 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1302/how-can-i-get-my-husband-to-love-me-again/#comment-4006 If you two really want this - love and trust can return with alot of hard work. You BOTH have to want this, you BOTH need individual counselling and you should go to marriage counselling. Counselling is a must or self help books. I would HIGHLY recommend this website Saving Your Relationship. It tells you how to recover from an affair, regain trust and fall in love again. http://savingyourrelationship.com/blog Good luck! If you two really want this – love and trust can return with alot of hard work. You BOTH have to want this, you BOTH need individual counselling and you should go to marriage counselling. Counselling is a must or self help books.

I would HIGHLY recommend this website Saving Your Relationship. It tells you how to recover from an affair, regain trust and fall in love again.

http://savingyourrelationship.com/blog

Good luck!

]]> By: AK finally spring has sprung. http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1302/how-can-i-get-my-husband-to-love-me-again/comment-page-1/#comment-4007 AK finally spring has sprung. Thu, 03 Sep 2009 07:19:33 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1302/how-can-i-get-my-husband-to-love-me-again/#comment-4007 Well you first need to stop doing the blame game, who did worse to who game. You will get no where with it. Fact is you screwed up and he has screwed up. You forgave him he is having a harder time. If your husband doesn't love you, you can't MAKE him love you. If you can't get the communication going it isn't going to work in the end, so I suggest you say to him. "I know I hurt you, I know I did wrong, but WE have to get pass this, I know it must be hard for you, I remeber the feeling, but in time I healed and I want to help you heal, and for us to heal together." and you need to reassure him ALOT "I am so glad you are still here, cause I have come to realize in my own mistakes how much you truly mean to me." This is a hard one, good luck. Well you first need to stop doing the blame game, who did worse to who game. You will get no where with it. Fact is you screwed up and he has screwed up. You forgave him he is having a harder time. If your husband doesn’t love you, you can’t MAKE him love you. If you can’t get the communication going it isn’t going to work in the end, so I suggest you say to him. "I know I hurt you, I know I did wrong, but WE have to get pass this, I know it must be hard for you, I remeber the feeling, but in time I healed and I want to help you heal, and for us to heal together." and you need to reassure him ALOT "I am so glad you are still here, cause I have come to realize in my own mistakes how much you truly mean to me."
This is a hard one, good luck.

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