How do I get my ex boyfriend back?
Im bi and a boy. I really liked him but he broke up with me… how do I get him back?
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You’re not foolish for wanting your ex back back, and is it is possible to get them back. If you want them back, then get ‘em back. BUT, we need to adjust your focus – instead of trying to "win" him back, let’s focus on helping to stir up desire so that HE will want YOU back. Make sense?
There are psychological triggers that you can use to make your ex desire YOU and make him want you back (instead of you chasing him). It’s not irrational or foolish of you to want to do either – it’s part of your nature.
You cannot let your emotions make your decisions, as they will lead to do things that will simply drive the other person away (like make promises to change whatever caused the break up in the first place). Instead, you need to think counter-intuitively. Making promises, saying that things will be different, and going to their every beck and call is a recipe ripe to drive them away.
Instead, you can arouse desire in the other person, putting you in a position to bring them back, because THEY will make the decision to do it.
If you JUST broke up, then you’re in a good spot because damage can still be repaired. But instead of following your emotions, use a bit of psychology that will make the other person WANT to come back instead of leaving you to be the pursuer.
ouch! uh try to move on or try to get him jealous with another hot guy
1. Stop Don’t chase him anymore. Don’t call him, don’t email him or don’t text him. As far as he is concerned you just dropped off the face of the earth. This is what he is enjoying. Seeing you chase him and beg him. This is a big ego builder for him and he is eating it up.
2. Get a makeover Go to a beauty salon and get the works. Pamper yourself. This alone will make you feel much better. Next, go shopping. Buy some new clothes to go along with your new look. Now you will feel even better.
3. Look In the mirror Do you still think your stubborn ex boyfriend deserves this sharp chick? Then go out with some girlfriends. Get around, laugh and have fun. Make sure your stubborn ex boyfriend sees you and knows what he is giving up. This should bring him running back. But if it doesn’t.
4. Date his best friend That’s right pull out all the stops and bring him to his knees. He’ll come back now, but don’t be easy on him. Make him chase you awhile and do some begging. Make sure that he gets the message that if he ever pulls another childish stunt like this again he will definitely be your stubborn ex boyfriend forever.