i realy want my ex boyfriend back?
me and my ex boyfriend split up 3months ago and i realy want him back im having a baby with him im 7 months pregnant we split cos he assulted me , and theres a big court case coming up at the end of this month now his got a new girlfriend he dont want me back and doesent want anything to do with the baby , i miss all the good times he made promises to me and told me how great i was then we planned a baby then thats wen things went wrong he was phoning me every 2 weeks telling me he missis me and still calling me baby but he says he still cares ,but i have now told him to stop ringing me and he has and ive had my number changed cos every time he rings he likes to play gam,es why his he doing this and wot do i do advice please a realy upset puppy x
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he sounds like a horrible human being. he plays games which in itself is not a good sign. your having his child, and for him to be suck a prick –honey -really, your better off without him. HELLO..He freaking assaulted you. to begin with, he is abusive, unsupported, and untrustworthy. Your going to have your baby, and that’s amazing in itself, u know? But you need 2 be the bigger person here, and think about the baby. allow him to be "daddy" but when he is not there, then don’t be disappointed. he sounds like a lost. confused boy and you don’t need him. you should not want 2 have someone like him interfering w.ur child and emotionally mess you up, and the baby. do not take him back, please…for the kid.you and i both know that he is not responsible, nor committed. therefore, as much attachment you may have to him, he is not going to change or live up to his own expectations. he will use u to his own convince, which is when you say "hey u know what? im having this kid..u can or can choose not to be a part of its life but you need to make te choice, and change because i will not and refuse to respond to ur disrespect, and emotionally mess up my baby and me. be a dad, or go party, do whatever it is u do… and don’t talk to me"
that’s when u really need 2 b like super non -selfish and stubborn whatever, and think…. or your kid because that’s what is essential right now. when u bring another life into this world, the negativity and avoidable drama needs to go away, find support through family, or friends, this guys sound like a psycho immature, loser.
your better then this.
i wish u well
grow up and go see a lawyer about child support. he says he don’t want anything to do with the baby, so hit him where it is going to hurt him the most, his wallet. you don’t want to go back to someone who assaulted you. just remember, once a woman beater always a woman beater. his new girl friend is in for a rude awakening
Hi, I’ve just been in the same boat, i really loved my boyfriend more than anything. I found out he’d been sleeping with his ex behind my back and he went off drinking for days telling me he was going to kill himself if i don’t have him back. Of course i had him back cause i loved him so much. Things started to look up and i got pregnant, i couldn’t have been happier until his drinking started again and then abuse.
When i was 5 months pregnant he went on a drinking binge and came home in a foul mood, i just ignored him and went to bed. That was probably the worse thing i could of done, he followed me up with a kitchen knife, sat on my belly and put the knife to my throat. I managed to get away to a friends that night with my other two boys. Four days later i ended up in hospital bleeding, two weeks after that i lost my baby, I still had him back after all that, i didn’t give a statement to the police even though now i should have.
He disappeared on his drinking binges again inbetween thomas’s death and the funeral and then again after the funeral. I have now stopped all contact with him. I’m really hurting and no one can understand why i loved him at all. We had some really good times before all this happened and i think i was hanging onto them, still am in away. But he has some really serious issues to sort out. Since hes left i’m stuck in my house, no baby and no partner but i do have my other two boys.
I’m really trying hard to move on, and as time goes on it is getting slightly easier with the odd bad day ofcourse. Hes slept around a number of times since we split up, the first time was only two weeks after our babys funeral….Hes hurt me in so many different ways and i still love him and probably always will but i now know there is just no future with him.
You should not be with this man if he abused you especially when you are pregnant, if he can do it to you then it could get worse. I’m telling you not to have him back, and i’m getting people telling me not to have my ex back. Your not on your own and deep down we know what the best thing for us is.
I wish you and your baby all the luck for the future. xxx