Comments on: How can I again fall in love with my husband like I did before I married him? http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1355/how-can-i-again-fall-in-love-with-my-husband-like-i-did-before-i-married-him/ Sat, 11 Feb 2012 14:09:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Matt @ Parenting Skills http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1355/how-can-i-again-fall-in-love-with-my-husband-like-i-did-before-i-married-him/comment-page-1/#comment-74855 Matt @ Parenting Skills Wed, 23 Mar 2011 19:19:38 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1355/how-can-i-again-fall-in-love-with-my-husband-like-i-did-before-i-married-him/#comment-74855 It's especially hard to keep that fire lit when there are kids around, especially the ages that you have. It's extremely important to make sure you have alone time with your husband. Date nights once a week hopefully and once or twice a year a weekend away with just him. It will do wonders! It’s especially hard to keep that fire lit when there are kids around, especially the ages that you have. It’s extremely important to make sure you have alone time with your husband. Date nights once a week hopefully and once or twice a year a weekend away with just him. It will do wonders!
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]]> By: SameHere http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1355/how-can-i-again-fall-in-love-with-my-husband-like-i-did-before-i-married-him/comment-page-1/#comment-69419 SameHere Mon, 05 Jul 2010 03:10:00 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1355/how-can-i-again-fall-in-love-with-my-husband-like-i-did-before-i-married-him/#comment-69419 I have the same problem that you have... I have been married for 4 years but for 3 of those years my husband ignored me, rejected me, isnt attracted to me, makes me feel disgusting when I wanted to make love, we have sex every 3 months-6 months and when we do have sex he tells me to hurry up and it lasts like 3-5 minutes literally, I got braces and he hasn't kissed me for 3 years since I got them because he is disgusted by them and he is a germophobe which in turn makes me feel very disgusting... He has done a number on my self esteem, I now suffer from major self esteem issues because of this and I am always depressed... He is a nice man but I dont have kids yet and to be honest now that he has made me fall out of love with him I dont want to have children with him... Oh... and he is very stingy to the point where I feel like Im worth nothing because he cant even buy me a small gift on my birthday, christmas or valentines day... I feel like I live with a roommate.. The list goes on... He knows I have fallen out of love with him and I am not sure I can fall back in love with him or even if I want to... He is selfish and seems to only care about his own feelings and himself and not my own... This is why I fell out of love with him. The sad part is that I married my first boyfriend and I am constantly rejected by him... Dont know what to do, am thinking about divorce but I am afraid of being alone. I am 28 and no kids yet... We never use protection but we also rarely have sex because he doesn't like to have sex... This is why I don't have kids... I have the same problem that you have… I have been married for 4 years but for 3 of those years my husband ignored me, rejected me, isnt attracted to me, makes me feel disgusting when I wanted to make love, we have sex every 3 months-6 months and when we do have sex he tells me to hurry up and it lasts like 3-5 minutes literally, I got braces and he hasn’t kissed me for 3 years since I got them because he is disgusted by them and he is a germophobe which in turn makes me feel very disgusting… He has done a number on my self esteem, I now suffer from major self esteem issues because of this and I am always depressed… He is a nice man but I dont have kids yet and to be honest now that he has made me fall out of love with him I dont want to have children with him… Oh… and he is very stingy to the point where I feel like Im worth nothing because he cant even buy me a small gift on my birthday, christmas or valentines day… I feel like I live with a roommate.. The list goes on… He knows I have fallen out of love with him and I am not sure I can fall back in love with him or even if I want to… He is selfish and seems to only care about his own feelings and himself and not my own… This is why I fell out of love with him. The sad part is that I married my first boyfriend and I am constantly rejected by him… Dont know what to do, am thinking about divorce but I am afraid of being alone. I am 28 and no kids yet… We never use protection but we also rarely have sex because he doesn’t like to have sex… This is why I don’t have kids…

]]> By: Very Honest http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1355/how-can-i-again-fall-in-love-with-my-husband-like-i-did-before-i-married-him/comment-page-1/#comment-4196 Very Honest Sun, 06 Sep 2009 06:30:54 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1355/how-can-i-again-fall-in-love-with-my-husband-like-i-did-before-i-married-him/#comment-4196 I have no idea what it would be like to fall out of love, but you should think about why you might be falling out of love. Did he change mentally, emotionally or physically, or is he the same person you fell in love with? Why did you fall in love? Could you ever live without him or would you love to be without him? You could never fall out of love if you're treating each other with love, respect, trust, communication and doing anything to make each other happy. If that's not the way you are treating each other, then it will get worse. You cannot be selfish in a marriage, because selfish people should be alone. The fact that you want the relationship to stay together is a good sign, but WHY do you want to stay together? If it's for anything other than love, that isn't good. It can't be for money, or a place to live, etc. It should be because you do still love him and maybe not even realizing how much. Well bring it out. Bring out the reasons that you want it to work. Don't keep it cold, make it hot. Always kiss him, hug him and tell him you love him. Become excited when he walks in the door after a long day at work. Be sexy and look beautiful. Give him compliments. Tell him what you would love him to do or change. Communicate about everything. You will become so close and you will realize that he's your man for the rest of your life. It could be so exciting. Good Luck I have no idea what it would be like to fall out of love, but you should think about why you might be falling out of love.

Did he change mentally, emotionally or physically, or is he the same person you fell in love with? Why did you fall in love? Could you ever live without him or would you love to be without him?

You could never fall out of love if you’re treating each other with love, respect, trust, communication and doing anything to make each other happy. If that’s not the way you are treating each other, then it will get worse. You cannot be selfish in a marriage, because selfish people should be alone.

The fact that you want the relationship to stay together is a good sign, but WHY do you want to stay together? If it’s for anything other than love, that isn’t good. It can’t be for money, or a place to live, etc. It should be because you do still love him and maybe not even realizing how much. Well bring it out. Bring out the reasons that you want it to work. Don’t keep it cold, make it hot.

Always kiss him, hug him and tell him you love him. Become excited when he walks in the door after a long day at work. Be sexy and look beautiful. Give him compliments. Tell him what you would love him to do or change. Communicate about everything. You will become so close and you will realize that he’s your man for the rest of your life. It could be so exciting.

Good Luck

]]> By: mermaid http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1355/how-can-i-again-fall-in-love-with-my-husband-like-i-did-before-i-married-him/comment-page-1/#comment-4197 mermaid Sun, 06 Sep 2009 06:30:54 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1355/how-can-i-again-fall-in-love-with-my-husband-like-i-did-before-i-married-him/#comment-4197 welcome to the real world.. u were lucky enough to fall in love first time..now ur really being greedy welcome to the real world..

u were lucky enough to fall in love first time..now ur really being greedy

]]> By: Forlorn Hope http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1355/how-can-i-again-fall-in-love-with-my-husband-like-i-did-before-i-married-him/comment-page-1/#comment-4198 Forlorn Hope Sun, 06 Sep 2009 06:30:54 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1355/how-can-i-again-fall-in-love-with-my-husband-like-i-did-before-i-married-him/#comment-4198 take a holiday together and get in some role playing... and see what happens... :D take a holiday together and get in some role playing… and see what happens… :D

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