how can i get my ex boyfriend to forgive me ?
okay so the other day my boyfriend and i broke up and that night i ended up drink with some friends . i drank too much and ended up kissing someone (his friend who i used to talk to) hes trying to say i cheated when i didnt . i really dont know what to do. he just keeps calling me a slut and ive been crying for the past two days and throwing up from crying so much . i havent eaten i can’t sleep . how can i get him to forgive me
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You kissed someone after you two broke up…
You’re allowed…
You don’t have to believe his nonsense…
Hi,
If you decide you want to get back with your ex, you must be ready to face not only what has gone wrong with the relationship, but also your part in the break down of the relationship. If you made mistakes then don’t beat yourself up for that. We all make them, it’s what you do after the mistake that’s influential.
7 Advices To Get Back With Ex
1. So sit down with yourself and take some time to go through what happened and what were the issues that led up to what happened. Don’t concern yourself too much with what you see as your ex’s mistakes, leave that for the future. Only concern yourself right now with what you can influence.
2. Whatever mistakes you find in your past behavior, can they be forgiven? Don’t be too eager to get down on yourself and believe that your mistakes are basically unforgivable . You would be astonished at the situations that couples find themselves in and that they later recover from. So don’t think that your mistakes are beyond forgiveness. There is always hope!
3. Try and pin point what was happening in your life at the time that led you to make the mistakes, particularly if it was completely out of character for you. Remember what I said about facing hard truths, if you want to get back with an ex, then you should do this.
4. You might discover that you were under certain stresses and strains. Perhaps you were under threat at your job? Or you weren’t physically feeling yourself? Or perhaps there were other family issues . Whatever you find when you look back at what happened, you will eventually need to sit down with your ex and explain in detail exactly what you have found.
5. If your mistakes were derived from you just being thoughtless or selfish, then this is something about you and your character that can quite easily be fixed. It will take ongoing monitoring but if you are sincerely committed to getting back with your ex, then it is going to be rewarding.
6. When you have come to the point where you have begun to gain perspective about your mistakes, then call your ex and arrange a meeting. It is usually better to arrange a face to face meeting somewhere public and neutral because then there is less chance of either of you becoming emotional.
7. So, make sure that you stay on what you want to say. Apologize and ask for forgiveness and then listen carefully to what your ex has to say.
For an article about a book that helped me and many others to get back with their ex, click on the link below:
http://www.squidoo.com/magic–of-making-up
Good luck!