Whats the best thing to do to get your ex bf back?
My ex and I broke up almost a year ago and I have tried to be friends with him since we broke up. Well we finally started talking again and I want him back. What is the best way to get him back? Also he texts me everyday does that mean he still cares? What are signs to look for to tell me he still cares?
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Hey,
When you decide you want to get back with your ex, you have to be ready to face not only what has gone wrong with the relationship, but also your part in the break down of the relationship. If you made mistakes then don’t beat yourself up for that. We all make them, it’s what you do after the mistake that’s influential.
7 Advices To Get Back With Ex
1. So sit down alone and take some time to go through what happened and what were the issues that led up to what happened. Don’t harass yourself too much with what you see as your ex’s mistakes, leave that for the future. Only concern yourself right now with what you can influence.
2. Whatever mistakes you find in your past behavior, can they be forgiven? Don’t be too eager to get down on yourself and believe that your mistakes are basically unpardonable . You would be amazed at the situations that couples find themselves in and that they afterwards recover from. So don’t think that your mistakes are beyond forgiveness. There is always hope!
3. Try and pin point what was happening in your life at the time that led you to make the mistakes, particularly if it was completely out of character for you. Remember what I said about facing hard truths, if you want to get back with an ex, then you need to do this.
4. You might learn later that you were under certain stresses and strains. Perhaps you were under threat at your job? Or you weren’t physically feeling yourself? Or perhaps there were other family matters . Whatever you find when you look back at what happened, you will eventually need to sit down with your ex and explain in detail just what you have found.
5. If your mistakes were the result of you just being thoughtless or selfish, then this is something about you and your character that can quite easily be fixed. It will take ongoing monitoring but if you are sincerely committed to getting back with your ex, then it is going to be worthwhile.
6. When you have come to the point where you have begun to gain perspective about your mistakes, then call your ex and arrange to meet. It is usually better to arrange a face to face meeting somewhere public and neutral because then there is less chance of either of you becoming emotional.
7. So, make sure that you stay calm and focused on what you want to say. Apologize and ask for forgiveness and then listen with great attention to what your ex has to say.
For an article about a book that helped me and many others to get back with their ex, view the link below:
http://www.squidoo.com/magic–of-making-up
All the best!
Just ask. Tell him you want to get back together.
Best way to a mans heart is sex and food.
Just let it go and see what happens. If he wants it and so don’t you it will work it self out.
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just tell him how you feel..
He probably still does care. If he cares then he still talks/txts to you on a regular basis not just a one time kinda thing, he’s concerned for you when things don’t seem right, he’s there for you, he’s protective (trust me there are some guys who are loyal can do all this and not make it seem obvious that they still like the girl because in that case the girl might be a little slow in figuring it out)
Just show him signs that you care for him
I know exaclly how you feel. The best thing you can do is take time. Let it work its self out. If he texts you first, he probably does still have some feeelings. But you need to let time figure things out.
u just need to get over him…. ull end up brakin up…. iv seen it a 1,000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000 times…halla
Uhm just keep talking to him & see how that goes if he wants you back as much as you want him he’ll ask you about what happened between you two or if you still have feelings for him
Well, him texting you first is a good sign. i don’t know why you guys broke up but there’s a reason why you guys are ex’s right so make sure your making the right decision on trying to get him back.
There isn’t much you can do unfortunately… keep talking to him, don’t rush him, talk to him about it.. but you guys broke up for a reason, and it’s taken him a bit to get back to you? If so, for a reason
yeah he still cares and just dont act so attached to him and don’t text him back everyday then he’ll kno you want him back and take advantage of you… if he ask you to hang out for the first time say no you got other plans… don’t run right back to him wait a little while … til you get him wrapped around you little finger
It is hard for me to answer this question because you did not say why you broke up.
Also, remember, ex-boyfriends are usually ex-boyfriends for a reason (at least, that is what I have learned personally).
However, if you really want the relationship to continue, you need to give him time. If the instant messages are getting more and more, just take it easy – one day at a time.
Good Luck.
" if you love something let it go, if it comes back to you, then its yours" i hate hearing things like, ‘ you got to let it go’, and im sure it feels like you have. but it seems you were still thinking about him a lot while you guys were apart, so you never truly let him go. since i know that can be hard, just try focusing on yourself and your needs first and usually when you stop giving them a lot of attention he will come back in one form or another. then you guys should decide if this love is real, or its time to move on for good. and trust me if he still is talking to you then he cares because when guys dont care, they dont give u attention!
hope i helped a little :/
My husband and I almost ended our three-year relationship last December. I didn’t know for sure what happened between him and the woman that we argued about. But I remember that our relationship was strained and we fought everyday over literally everything. We went to a couple of counselings and started to read about rebuilding the trust and respect in relationship. At one point, we started to sit down and talk about our feelings toward each other. Trust me, it helps, since neither one of us is a mind reader. Nowadays, we feel very comfortable talking about what happened and how we could move on and focus on our life together. We are very happy together again, we are bonding like when we first met but even stronger. The true love of your life is the one that makes your heart beat a little faster, the person you are constantly trying to impress, the person whose voice you need to hear, who you enjoy talking to, the person you do the little things for. But most importantly, it is the person you feel comfortable and complete with. If you are serious about making up with your loved one and rebuilding your relationship, this is one book that I highly recommend..it helped us a lot..
http://tinyurl.com/MakingUpMiracle
Take care and God bless