Is it possible to love again after your wife passed away?
My wife passed away because of a kidney failure. I have loved my so dearly and sometimes I think that she is still alive and I can’t let go. Where do I go from here?
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Yes. It is not so much that you are loving again but that you love still.
You will love her forever. But just as we can love all of our children, you will love another woman.
One love does not take away from another love. The feeling is magnified, not diminished.
You got it right in this relationship. You know how to do it.
The pain of her absence will lessen over time. If you are in no hurry to look for someone, then wait for her to find you.
I hope for you all good things. I am sorry for your loss.
LET GO! i tink ur wife would be happy if ur gonna be happy too.
I am so sorry for your loss and your pain. Grieving is a very long and difficult process. I think it will be possible for you to love again; you’ve already proven you know how by loving your wife in the first place. Hang in there; it will get better.
Yes, it’s possible, only time will heal your wounds, you will never forget the love you shared with her, but eventually you will find someone else to share your life with……..does not mean you need to forget her.
Yes I believe it is possible, but there is not set time limit to healing from the loss of a cherished spouse…let yourself get over losing her before going into another relationship……I am sure she would not want you to spend the rest of your life alone…..when you are ready for it you will know…..there is no time limit to grieving….so don’t let others push you into something you aren’t ready for…..not to say you should cut yourself off from everyone…go out with friends, do things …live and enjoy your life and when the time is right to find love again….it will happen
Allow yourself time to grieve and you need to let her go. Yes you love her and that will never change, i’m sure she will be happy if you find love again and are happy. You spent may years being married to your wife and she will always be a part of you, just don’t forget her and i’m sure she will be happy when you find happiness.
Oh yes absolutely. You will find love again but give yourself some time to heal she wouldnt want you to be miserable shwe would want you to be happy. Just give yourself sometime and when your ready to move on then you will.
Possible? Yes, but, (here’s the but) don’t compare your deceased wife to your new love should you find her. She is a completely different person with completely different traits and comparing will only do a new relationship harm. I am sorry for your loss and wish you nothing but the best in the future.
I believe it is, but it will take time. It could take a while, and that’s natural. You’ll have a myriad of feelings about loving again, don’t ever beat yourself up over those feelings. Do what feels right at the time. Sometimes you’ll feel like sulking, so do that. Sometimes you’ll feel like losing yourself in things like TV, work, or being with a supportive friend, so do that. You can love again, and it’s OK to love again. Life is for the living, those that have passed on understand that better than we do. Best wishes. I experienced the loss of my mother at a young age, and I welcome you to e-mail me if you want to chat.
I am very sorry for you loss. Grief is difficult and takes time. I do not know how long it has been since she died so it is hard to tell where you are in the grief process. The entire grief cycle could take one to two years. You have to go through it at your own pace. Eventually you will get to a point where you can accept the loss of your wife and begin to reorganize life being single again. At that point you may be able to entertain the thought of being with someone else. If you get stuck in the grief process you may want to the help of a grief counselor. I wish you well.
Very sorry to hear of your loss.
Of course it’s possible…just remember you are not in a race, and you will never replace her, don’t try.
Try this as a way to look at things a little differently.
Clasp both hands together and interlock you fingers and thumbs.
Picture that as you and your wife, all your love , happiness, and togetherness.
Now interlock them with the other thumb on top.
Picture that as perhaps a new wife, all your love , togetherness, and happiness.All the feelings are still there…just a little different.
Look up information on a woman who was just on Oprah and lost her husband and son in a plane crash. She has lots to say about how to get over the grief and go on. Good luck dear. You will find happiness soon. You are not alone.
I didn’t lose a spouse, I lost my mom to cancer.
It took me 5 yrs. to feel good again.
If you get counseling – you can shorten the time you are grieving and find constructive ways to deal with your loss. I wish I would have had some counseling – it would really have helped me to move forward faster and enjoy life again. A support group could be just what you need right now.
My best to you as you struggle through these difficult times.