Comments on: Is my marriage worth saving and if so can it be saved? http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1475/is-my-marriage-worth-saving-and-if-so-can-it-be-saved/ Sat, 11 Feb 2012 14:09:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Franky007 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1475/is-my-marriage-worth-saving-and-if-so-can-it-be-saved/comment-page-1/#comment-53000 Franky007 Sun, 11 Apr 2010 06:08:29 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1475/is-my-marriage-worth-saving-and-if-so-can-it-be-saved/#comment-53000 Great post. Completely agree Great post. Completely agree

]]> By: fokker - it's an airplane! http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1475/is-my-marriage-worth-saving-and-if-so-can-it-be-saved/comment-page-1/#comment-5101 fokker - it's an airplane! Thu, 17 Sep 2009 04:51:30 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1475/is-my-marriage-worth-saving-and-if-so-can-it-be-saved/#comment-5101 Wow - role reversal - I have heard this from hundreds of women. Somehow, i am guessing her list of gripes about you include incessant nagging, never want to have sex, and being too focused on the home and kid rather than on her. In any case - I think the solution would be to stop everything - neither of you have anything to lose since the marriage is at stake - oh - and leave other women out of it - that's not going to help anything. Anyway - stop everything. You have already left. Leave your emotions and resentment behind you. You may want to be single again? So be single and keep the marriage (without the other women part) - try it out. Get back into your hobbies, friends and family - much like a single person would (you are already used to not having sex.) Treat your wife as a friend again. We don't get mad at our friends for mundane things as we do our spouse. Let her be - her life is hers if she wants to be lazy or messy - who cares - let her deal with that - especially since you aren't living there. Once the resentment is gone - and you are friends again - there isn't much to get upset about. You do you for a while. Good luck man. Wow – role reversal – I have heard this from hundreds of women.

Somehow, i am guessing her list of gripes about you include incessant nagging, never want to have sex, and being too focused on the home and kid rather than on her.

In any case – I think the solution would be to stop everything – neither of you have anything to lose since the marriage is at stake – oh – and leave other women out of it – that’s not going to help anything.

Anyway – stop everything. You have already left. Leave your emotions and resentment behind you. You may want to be single again? So be single and keep the marriage (without the other women part) – try it out. Get back into your hobbies, friends and family – much like a single person would (you are already used to not having sex.) Treat your wife as a friend again. We don’t get mad at our friends for mundane things as we do our spouse. Let her be – her life is hers if she wants to be lazy or messy – who cares – let her deal with that – especially since you aren’t living there.

Once the resentment is gone – and you are friends again – there isn’t much to get upset about. You do you for a while. Good luck man.

]]> By: MissBall http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1475/is-my-marriage-worth-saving-and-if-so-can-it-be-saved/comment-page-1/#comment-5102 MissBall Thu, 17 Sep 2009 04:51:30 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1475/is-my-marriage-worth-saving-and-if-so-can-it-be-saved/#comment-5102 Life is short, do what makes you happy other than being taken for granite Life is short, do what makes you happy other than being taken for granite

]]> By: MacKenzie http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1475/is-my-marriage-worth-saving-and-if-so-can-it-be-saved/comment-page-1/#comment-5103 MacKenzie Thu, 17 Sep 2009 04:51:30 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1475/is-my-marriage-worth-saving-and-if-so-can-it-be-saved/#comment-5103 Well it sounds as though your answer is in your question "I find myself wanting to be single again", obviously you've done all that you can and you just aren't getting to that happy spot. Staying with someone on account of a child is not a good idea, the child only suffers in the end. You seem as though you've been a good husband and father, this marriage just isn't going to work out. All the best to you and yours. Well it sounds as though your answer is in your question "I find myself wanting to be single again", obviously you’ve done all that you can and you just aren’t getting to that happy spot. Staying with someone on account of a child is not a good idea, the child only suffers in the end. You seem as though you’ve been a good husband and father, this marriage just isn’t going to work out. All the best to you and yours.

]]> By: Bob http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1475/is-my-marriage-worth-saving-and-if-so-can-it-be-saved/comment-page-1/#comment-5104 Bob Thu, 17 Sep 2009 04:51:30 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1475/is-my-marriage-worth-saving-and-if-so-can-it-be-saved/#comment-5104 Are you saying that your wife's sloppiness caused you to be resentful, and that caused you to lose interest in sex? I think that's dumb on your part. Who cares if she's messy, as long as she'll have sex? Are you saying that your wife’s sloppiness caused you to be resentful, and that caused you to lose interest in sex? I think that’s dumb on your part. Who cares if she’s messy, as long as she’ll have sex?

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