Should I kiss my ex boyfriend to get him back?
I am 12, and he is 12. We were together for 5 weeks. Yesterday I thought that we had it great. We both just got back from winter break, and we finally got to see each other. Then he pulled me a side and broke up with me. I didn’t know what I did wrong. He said I was the perfect girlfriend… Then I emailed him, and he said it wasn’t something that I did, and it wasn’t for another girl. He just said he didn’t really like me that much. Ever since I have been crying and crying. A lot of people at school call me popular and hot. But I just think of myself as any other kid. Now a lot of people call him ugly and dumb. I think of him as popular and me ugly and dumb. Everyone says that he would be lucky to have me. But I think that I was lucky to have him… I am not going to school today, because i sprained my leg, but i’m going back tomorrow. he said he wanted to talk to me in person. He knows he hurt me a lot, and he is trying to make me feel better. He asked if we could just be friends, but I said I don’t know. That would just be weird. I still love him. Well when I get back to school, I really want to talk to him. I had a dream last night, that i want to reenact. I would talk to him, and then say,"Can i ask you something?" Then I would kiss him, for the first time on the lips, and ask to get back together. Do you think I should do this? A lot of my friends say I should, and i really want to. Would this be a bad move? From past boyfriends, they said I was a good kisser.
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If you did that you would be throwing yourself at him. That makes you look desperate and even less desirable.
Besides, what if he pushes you away? You will be humiliated!
He already knows how you feel about him and I’m sure you are a wonderful person, but he is not the guy for you nor are you the girl for him.
Don’t do anything except let him go.
ex’s are EX’s for a reason. you’re 12. dont ever go back to your ex. move on and find someone new.
You are only 12! 5 weeks is not a long time, it’s a flash in the pan! Forget him. There will be plenty of other guys in your life.
Don’t run around kissing boys just yet. My question is, why would you even want him back after what he said to you? Clearly a 12 year old boy has no idea what he wants in a girlfriend. Just the idea of having a girlfriend appeals to him. You don’t NEED a boyfriend, either, you’re only 12 years old.
And for heavens’ sake…you do NOT love him!
I think he is a very nice boy. It is up to you whether you want to put yourself out there… you may get hurt even more. Is he worth it?
I do think 12 is a little too young for social drama. Then again, I am a fuddy-duddy.
Remember, you’re still young and there will be plenty of good guys for you to choose from.
thats a really sad story.
but i think kissing him after a breakup would be thought of as a bit obsessive and forward. dont let him feel like he has something over you.
i dont think things would end well by doing that. i would try and focus on other things, from the sound of things i bet you would easily get a new boyfriend, its good not to take relationshops too seriously when you’re as young as 12.
who knows maybe he will ask you back out , or an even cuter one !
good luck x
well the thing is you can kiss him if you want to. but i dont no how far that will get u he might just think your desparate and want him back. or he might like it and want u back to and if u guys talk it out then u guys can get somewhere i to be honest think that u shuld just talk it out with him then if you guys do get bak together then u can kiss him right there and then. i hope i helped. goodluckk
Darling…Its not age to kissing or think about the sex.. just be with ur study n concentrate.Pls…Dear its my repuest to you.
Woooh! Kids are kissing at age of 12 and find if normal?!? Haha what’s next getting prego! I dnt get my first kiss untill middle school. Hah future sluttt!! Anyways don’t do that there’s more fish in the ocean
oh wow…i felt like that once but sweety, if the dude is really worth it then go ahead and give him another chance it is all up to you and you are so not a future slot cause you are just a little girl falling in love…there is no way that the way you are going to get prego..
My exboyfriend broke up with me because he was pussy whipped but I still love him and he loves me too we even kiss do y’all think we could get back together even though we went out for 3 years and knew eachother for 4 years
Screw Dr. Popular. Dont kiss him, but be friends with him. Flirt it up. You rock girl!
Wow!! drama at 12! i never knew a 12yr old girls life could be so dramatic.. i barely knew how to kiss at 12.. i’m 19 and am head over heals about a guy i knew 4two years then dated 4three and half years, and i’m ver much dreading the 1st meet up after the break bcoz i we both know how we feel about eact other and i know something will happen and my love 4him will lick start again.. ur 12, u dont need a bf til later on in life, ur better without, concentrate on your studies and how to have fun with ur female friends.. a boyfriend and wether u shud kiss him or not is not wat u shud be thinkin about at ur age.. wel gud luk anyway xx
I know how you feel i been there the same thing happend to me but i was the one who broket up whith him and i love him so much and was loking for the chance to get back whith him but he told me to just be friends and i found out he liket this ugly girl and well im the popular to and alot of other guys like me. but i found out to that he was talking shit about me behind my back and well i still love him my life sucks and my love story is a really long but i will love to meet you maybe facebook/ myspace/ or hotmail this is my email mariajimenez176@hotmail.com please look me up
im going thru da same damn thang!!!and imma ‘kiss’ him TOMORROW no matter wat ani1 sayz!!!
I am a 16 year old Sophomore. I and am having the same problem. We broke up because my friends keep getting in the way. I think he likes me and I like him but Im afraid to date him again. I might kiss him Monday at school but I dont think that you should kiss your guy. You are only 12. You have so much time to find out what you really want. I also think that 12 is too young to be in love. I am 16 and I barely understand love. I know you probally dont want to hear about being young but its true. Just be careful and think seriously about what he really means to you. If he cares enough, you shouldnt have to kiss him to get him to go back out with you. Hope this helps you.
Dont. i tried that before and it didn’t work out well 8/
Umm sorry to break this to you hunny but you were 12! Way to young to have a relationship and kiss him. Besides it wouldnt be right if you would just do that after you guys broke up. He would push you away right away, he said he doesnt like you no more so you have to move on. Wow i’m 15 and i didnt date till last year. Drama at 12. sorry but ya need to grow up sweetheart.
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