Poll: How did you get over your last ex?
I wasa dating this guy and he was my first ofr everything, we lasted 7 months and always told each other we’d be together forever. he was the first i ever trusted, the first who ever gave me confidence. But then changed, and started treating me like a game, then dumped me. I know i should be angry but every time i accidently think of him or something reminds me of him, i remember one of the good times and miss it, the old him, and start crying again.
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Lots of sex, go out and f*ck every guy you can.
It will make you feel better, don’t worry about that hollow feeling inside, that’s just a part of you that’s died.
On the plus side your ex will be upset and definitely want you back if he thinks you’re a dirty wh*re of a nymph
This Too Shall Pass
just stick with your girlfriends and make sure you stock up on ice cream and the lifetime channel. you’l get over it
how can you let someone be your everything when he made you nothing.. let it go there are plenty of fish in the sea.. move on
That’s normal. The best way to get over someone is to remember WHY you broke up. He changed so he’s not the same guy you initially hooked up with. Get happy and realize that almost everyone in the world has been dumped at some time.
it takes time, you will, its always diff for girls, & there isn’t anything wrong w/crying, you shared something special w/him
Time baby, time. It’s never easy but you know eventually it will get better.
Thing is, you can never see the light at the end till you get there.
Do take of yourself.
i got married.
PS. i never got married
that happened to me too my last bf was the first guy i ever did anything i dated him for 10 months and then when we broke up whenever i would a song he sang to me i start crying and when i see the pic of me and him together and how happy we were i start crying but after a month of not being together i got over it i mean i still love him with all my heart but u no life goes on and there’s a million guys out in the world if i could move on i think u can too good luck!!!
Life goes on !!!!!! Occupy yourself with things that you like to do, or people you like to be around. Keep yourself busy. Of course their will be moments where you think of him, but as time goes on it will get better. It’s not the end of the world. A guy that treats you like a game is a douche bag. Why would you want to waste tears on such a guy ? Eventually some one new will come along, you will become happy again, and then you will break up. Each break up should make you stronger, and wiser to know what it is your really looking for. This will help you build character so you will know when you have found Mr.Right. Not Mr.Right now.
wow wowu wow well going to have to find someone else because he did u wrong and u should never want somebody that could turn around and do the same thing over again i feel as if the answer should come to u soon somethings are just not meant to be
get your bff’s together, and make sure to have lots of chocolate, and try to find a better guy
Yea I know the feeling, I’m the same way. Just stay strong girl, and stay busy. I have a daughter, she usually keeps me busy. Go out, make yourself feel pretty. Just go out and enjoy life, find ways to make yourself happy. Find a hobby, something you love to do, and do it. Find things that will remind yourself that you don’t need him, and that one day you will find better, someone who will treat you as you want to be treated, and give you the love that you deserve.
spend a lot of time with your friends and family. they know you’re going through a tough time and they’ll help you get over it. do stuff to get your mind off of him: play sports and read. when i broke up with my boyfriend of 11 months is when i started reading the twilight series. ( i don’t know if you’re a fan or not ) but this was before it was a big movie and everything and it got my mind off of him for days. it was great because i couldn’t stop reading it and i didn’t think about him.
there’s also perks! flirting with other guys and finding a new boyfriend who won’t hurt you like he did. i found another guy about 9 months after my ex dumped me and we’ve been together for about 4 months now but i’m so happy i got over my ex or i wouldn’t be with my boyfriend and i love him so much. i know it hurts, and it sucks. you can cry if you want to, there’s nothing wrong about it. but just think how happy you’ll be once you do get over him. good luck, if you need to talk just email me.
I wish I could tell you a quick and simple way to get over him but at your age it is going to take some time. That is ok because the next time it happens you will say what ever man and keep it moving. Sorry that your hurt but as the person said above me this to shall pass this is a verse out of the bible. TIME
You sound like me a couple of years ago. Mine lasted for about two years? But he cheated and lied. We were on and off. Evertime we were not going out, he’d be with a new girl. But he’d always come back to me, saying he didn’t realize what he had. I’d always believe him, few weeks later, he’d do the same thing. I know how it feels to think of someone accidently. And those songs you can’t listen to cause it might remind you of him. Yea, it’s gonna hurt really bad, but when you finally get over him and find someone great, you’ll be like "Wow, I wasted all this time for this one particular guy? Stupid me." One day, when he realizes that you were the one, don’t let him into your life, when he calls, turn off your phone, when he comes to your house, don’t let him in. If you show guys too much on much you love him, and everything you;d do for him, they’ll take advantage. So show your strength and never your weakness. And believe me when I say that life does go on. And you’ll find someone who’s worth the tears.
find someone new
true love, is mutual. so i assure you, this isn’t the love of your life, not yet.
secondly, you’re missing someone that doesn’t exist anymore. he didn’t "change". his true colors came out with time. no one’s personality flip flops in 7 months, it just takes a long time to get to know someone. months, years, who knows.
love yourself more than a boy, who’s not even your family.
and you’ll find someone else worth your while.
-been there done that.