How To Get Your Ex To Return Your Calls
Have you been wondering if there are certain ‘magic’ words you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls?
May be it sounds hard to believe, but there actually ARE words that will nearly cast a spell and make your ex feel almost compelled to return your call.
Cool huh?…
I am going to share this with you, because this is one of the most frequently asked questions I get from the over 35,000 subscribers, that just like you are doing whatever thay can to put their relationship back together again.
So I am going to answer…”What Do I do to get my ex to return my phone call, text or IM?”
In the Magic Of Making Up, I lay out a complete strategy.
However, I’ve got to give you a warning about this. If you go ahead and use this technique alone, without an ‘overall’ plan or strategy…you may actually damage your relationship more than if they never returned your call. Keep that in mind.
What NOT to say
Before we get into the actual words you are going to use, let’s go over what message almost NEVER works, and even worse…
puts you in an AWFUL ‘psychological’ position.
These usually fall into 2 categories.
1. The PLEAD – Where the message sounds like “John, please, please call me. This is the 3rd time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you.”
2. The EMERGENCY – “John, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this.”
Now, I think you can see quite clearly what is wrong with both of those approaches?
So, I won’t go on and on about it…
What you should do instead, is using self interest and curiosity to your advantage.
Yes, I think you already know that two of the most powerful forces ithe human mind are curiosity and self interest.
And here comes the really big secret: When you combine the two, you have a recipe that will most definately work ‘magic’.
So, let’s look at what you can say that works nearly EVERY TIME.
In a friendly tone: “Hi John. It’s Cindy. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person.”
Can you see how that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest?
John will NOT be able to resist! “What did I do?” “What does she appreciate?” he will be thinking. And he feels good because it is a positive message.
Now, before you call him, you need to do the “Set Up”…which is figuring out what he did that you appreciate.
It can be any small thing…but it needs to be plausible.
But more importantly, and here comes the second warning:
Please have an underlying strategy like I lay out in the Magic Of Making Up System BEFORE you call.
Keep in mind, if you apply this technique with no underlying strategy and they call you back you can do more DAMAGE than good if you do not handle it correctly.
Okay?
What I am saying is that what you do before, during and after you get them to return your call, is actually MORE important than getting them to return your call.
Make sense?
Have a PLAN, and discover the Magic Of Making Up.
Rooting For You,
T Dub
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