Do you think it is time for me to divorce my wife? If not how can through to her. If I should wear to begin. ?
I do not know what is going with my wife now. We have problems when I was deploy. I was over there for 15 months. It was over bills that came up when I left and she wanted to divorce me and I thought we were fine until when I got back I find that she cheating on me. I forgive her and she knows that. We have 2 yr old son. We were taking slow and were doing good. Now she about go over there now. She is in army reserve. I am active duty. She is Ft. Dix training. She have her cell phone up there. I admit I was calling alot at first. Now, she acting like something is always wrong. She want divorce again. It says it over money and i was calling to much. We talk and she want me to tell her if I am going to spend money on something that I want not need. She talking like she crazy again. I cannot deal with this. I am giving her my all. I sent boxes. I sent her anything that need or wants. No love. I am trying my best to give her my unconditional love. But it getting hard. Nothing going change. I do not want to divorce her while she doing her thing. I do not want to do that to her because she treating do it me and do not want to do that. I need help because I am going recruiting duty in TX. I want be best man I can for her. I wish i know how but it so hard. Please help. I am solider. I am not trying to leave her behind I want to get attention to stop.
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It is time for you to divorce her, give her what she wants, she isnt happy with you and you are always away from her, of course she is going to cheat.
Dont feel bad about it though as you will both be happy then and you can move on to find someone new and it could be a good thing for you.
Maybe you need to leave her alone for awhile. Try not to spend on what you don’t need. Don’t call her as much. Let her call you. It could be that you are smothering her.
why would you wanna stay with a cheater you got some kind of fetish on women doing stuff behind your back
You guys need to go to counseling. it sounds like she doesn’t realize she have a good man that is willing to even go the extra mile to make it work. Marriage is something that you guys have to work through, it’s not like a boyfriend girlfriend relationship. It seem as if she is not owning up to her part because divorce is not something that anyone should just through out there when ever times get ruff. She might have things going on in her head that she is not telling you. Try to talk to her and listen.
I commend you on your effort and I wish you the best of luck.
She doesn’t seem to want to try to make your marriage work. If she doesn’t want to be married to you, for whatever reason, then you should let her go. You have done everything in your power to heal your marriage, but if she doesn’t want to put in any effort it’s not going to work. Sounds like she’s found someone else to occupy her time. Talk to your wife and try to find out what’s going on with her. If she still doesn’t want to try to make your marriage better, get a lawyer and go from there. Good luck. It’s a shame that she has a man who is willing to do so much for her and she won’t even appreciate it. She doesn’t deserve you.
Keep quiet, until your good time. Leave it to god, and keep on pray then you will get a way. Dont show your weakness, after some time she will come back.
Now a days trend is going like your family. Dont think you are only facing such type of problems, most of the people facing different type of problems in their house.
Any way god will help u, keep faith on him.
Good luck
Hey you both use Divorce word very lightly and often.Obviously the love is gone cause that’s the worst word an married spouse and use towards other.At this point you both have declared how disposable both are to the other so to hell with it already.Funny setup to possibly protect a country neither one can preserve a marriage.Seriously is there any perfect time to divorce so nice to wait til one is finish doing their thing