Comments on: Should I leave cheating husband for my ex that still love me? or try to save marriage with no children involve

By: nina w

nina w — Wed, 23 Sep 2009 12:00:23 +0000

You allready know the answer to your question. If you don’t trust him which in my opinon you shouldn’t if you try to save your marriage it will be for all the wrong reasons and you will resent him, Once the trust is gone you honestly can’t ever get it back especially the way it once was.
Just remember to be careful, I know you’ve known your EX for a long time yet leaving a relationship to jump right into another one is tricky. If you decide to go back to your EX Take some time for yourself first, A short breather starting a new relationship. It’s always a good thing to do.
Good Luck with whatever you decide.

By: sissy k

sissy k — Wed, 23 Sep 2009 12:00:23 +0000

If there is no trust there is not going to be a healthy relationship. I would have left the first time he cheated. As far as your ex goes, it is easy to remember just the good in a relationship as time passes, just remember he is an ex for a reason. Maybe you should give your self some time to just be you and make your decision on who to be with while you are not with anyone.

By: islandgirl0821

islandgirl0821 — Wed, 23 Sep 2009 12:00:23 +0000

ok leave the man! you dont deserve that crap! dont go w your ex you need time to heal! being cheated on is hard and painful!

By: claudia

claudia — Wed, 23 Sep 2009 12:00:23 +0000

I think that if you leave your marriage that you should do it for you. You need to think that if it is harming your self esteem and other things about yourself than maybe you need some time to your self. I don’t think that it is ever a good idea to go from one relationship straight to another one. I think that’s when people get confused and end up rebounding. Remember if there is no trust then there is nothing. You don’t have to call it quits if that is not what you truly want but you might need some time for yourself to figure out what you need in a relationship. I hope I helped.

By: nydp02

nydp02 — Wed, 23 Sep 2009 12:00:23 +0000

That is up to you. I think you already know the answer