How can you get your ex girlfriend back?
THIS IS WHY WE BROKE UP:
-bad @ directions. i’m a guy
-Forgot her favorite color, but got it the 2nd try
-Left ID @ club, and didn’t want to pay for a new ID so I just waited and then it ruined our plans because I couldn’t get into a club
-Didn’t have passport in car, when she supposedly told me to put it there
-Didn’t lock car doors. She hated that
-Texted her instead of calling like I said I would. Happened once
-Repeated myself, once
-Hung out with Ex-girlfriend. I had to give her back something and she asked me out to dinner and I agreed
-Tried to make her feel good with a compliment. She said I was being over-confident
-Being reactive, instead of proactive. I just live in the moment.
-I failed to know how she was feeling at ALL times. Honestly, that’s impossible to do
-MOST IMPORTANTLY: Pushed for us to be together when she told me she was unsure and didn’t think she was ready. In the end she finally told me she still had feelings for her ex and wasn’t over him
The thing is everyone tells me that she was picky and just not satisfied, but honestly the only real mistake was me hanging out with my ex, which I said I would never do again. I just want her to realize that she wasn’t happy because she was always pesimistic and that we could have been happy if she would have just loosened up. Girls say they hate argueing, but why do they get mad over little stuff like giving a overly confident compliment? I dunno… maybe I should just let go, but Love is blind and I guess I’ve learned to look past all the shit she put me through and still love her for the person she is. Why can’t she do the same? How do I prove to her that she made a mistake and attract her once again?
We had great times. She said she loved me, we talked about how are kids would be like, we were great when she wasn’t in a bad mood. She just felt like I never listened to her. How do I prove to her that I did? I’ve done many things to prove to her that I do, but maybe she doesn’t listen to me. Do you think she will come back if I walk away and start dating other girls? How do I get her to choose me over her ex?
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honestly it sounds like a lot of lil reasons that dont add up to much! I know a ton of women who wouldnt break up for things like this…
its called a relationship for a reason, and you learn and grow with each other…it sounds like many of the things that caused problems, you quickly fixed them when you realized they bothered her…
unfortunately i would say it has little to do with WHAT you did, but more of how she felt going into it…you said yourself that you pushed a little to have the relationship, and it seems that she wasnt really ready if she was nitpicking on you all the time.
i would say to not try to get her back…you probably need someone in your life that isnt going to be so demanding…(truthfully no one can know how others are feeling all the time)
if you walk away with dignity, she may decide she made the wrong decision…especially if you dont push her into a relationship again…but honestly i think you should let her go…and find someone else…either way…good luck…
TRY AND STOP TRYING TO IMPRESS HER SO MUCH BE A MAN BE STRONG NO GIRL REALLY WANTS A GUY SHE CAN BOSS AROUND ALL THE TIME! AND EX-GIRLFRIEND THING STOP IF YOU REALLY LIKE YOUR GIRLFRIEND THEN YOU’LL MAKE SACRIFICES
ummm…if she still has feeling for her ex, y do u want her back?? u deserve someone that needs u as much as u need them. if u absolutely have to have her back try being her friend before u push for a relationship. it does not seem like u know a lot about her if u did so many things to annoy her. try calling her out of the blue and say u were just checking on her and making sure so was doing ok. surprise her by sending her flowers or some other gift, but do not call, wait for her to call and thank u. just try to avoid bugging her, but let her know u still think of her. good luck!
dude! if you want her back for good and have her eating out of the palm of your hand… check out these secrets before she gets with that other guy. It worked for me and i am pretty sure it can work for you. Its a pretty simple guide, and once u get her back you will learn on how to keep her back for good.
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let me know how it goes! good luck!