Will my wife ever love me again?
My wife got pregnant on our honeymoon and we found out about 4-5 weeks later and about a week later she went off of her Paxil medication for anxiety I was taking it as well and went off of it too. Quickly our marriage went down the drain she stopped working and started sleeping like 18 hours a day and she became very critical of me and stopped letting me kiss her and she got very irriatated with me easily, saying my breath was bad and she would get upset because I was breathing too loud in bed, about 2 months into the marriage she stopped telling me she loved me and started sleeping in another bed and would no longer hang out or cuddle and she started asking me to leave and give her a break ect.
I am pretty sure she loved me at one point because after she broke up with me while dating she called me a month later and wanted me back and we got married shortly after. I took my wife to marriage counseling which actually helped alot but eventually she gave up and feels like she’ll never be able to love me. 3 weeks ago she had me move out and she plans to sign papers a month after the baby is born. I’ve done everything I can to keep her, I took her to the psychiatrist and got her on zoloft and it started helping and she started treating me much better but only once in the last month or so she told me that she felt like telling me she loved me but wouldn’t do it because she was worried she might get my hopes up. She let me cuddle with her all night and actually sleep in the same bed 3 times in the last month but now it’s like she’s made her decision to divorce soon. I still pay her rent and get her groceries and I try to support her and give her space but everytime I go back to her I end up in tears when I leave I’ve never loved someone so much and to have it go like this is almost too much for me. Is there any hope that after the baby is born I won’t irritate her so much and she will be able to have feelings for me again?
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She may when she goes back on her medication, but it is sad she only seems to love you when she is on medication.
Uh, if you get back ON the Paxil…
Not too tough to figure this one out.
Whipped much? Sounds to me like you are to clingy, might try giving her some space, make her come to you, if she doesn’t then all the better find some new chicks problem solved!
Get her back on the Paxil after the baby is born and hopefully things will get better.
man she sounds like a psycho, i would get this all documented before a judge get full custody, sounds like paxil made her fall in love with u and without it shes not the same person
I can tell you this. Youre gay and need to go bang out some other dudes because you just wrote a fucking five paragraph essay about your failed marriage on yahoo answers. I didnt even read anything but your title and looked at the long ass essay and realized "oh this dude’s wife will never love him agian because she doesnt wantg her mairage laid out on the internet. she wants to get laid." f u c k yeah
Sorry to hear that . But once people have a baby, there lifes can be instantly changed for the better and they become better people.Plus, when she has the baby, a lot of tension and anxiety from carrying the baby will be releived and the baby is gonna be something that will bring you both together again, Which will all benefit your relationship with her…im sure you two will patch things up, and will have an even better life with your own child. Good luck man! i hope that helped
Just be there for her until the baby is born, and then let her decide if she still needs you, In her mental situation its more likely she cannot cannot takecare of the baby.
yes there is hope cause i was like her but didn’t go that far.i just slept in a different room and everything else you are saying.It sounds like she needs some kind of medication.Hopefully she’ll get on medication after having the baby and slowly things will get better.Be patient,stick around.You seem to be nice guy.Just be there for her…………..I was the same way,i couldn’t stand my husband when i was pregnant.Today we have 2 children and have been married for 15 years.
please dont give up on your marriage.I went through a sepration a couple years ago but because my husband was listening to his family to much. he would tell me he hated me but i would tell him i loved him.He wanted a divorce after our 3rd child was born but this might sound crazy but am a true believe in Jesus Christ and i prayed and fasted for God to restore my marriage.I kept looking for aswers online and everyone would tell me just give it up.Until i went to http://www.rejoicemarriageministries.com I started submitting prayers and praying that God would change his heart and after 7 months of having to put up with him living with his brother and him telling me everyday he was going to divorce me he apologized and told me he loved me.God answered my prayer i believe it 100 percent.I dont regret it but it was in Gods timing not mine that God changed him.And e are more blessed now than ever.This is my opinion and i am being sincere
Hi Travis,
This is so sad..A young couple in Love and with a baby on the way..The problem is clear here..You both were taking Paxil for anxiety and you both Loved each other, so you got marry and then you both STOP taking Paxil..But she is taken Zoloft after seeing a psychiatrist..Without the drugs she cannot function right..And without the drugs you won’t have a real marriage..
So if you want here to be your wife,she will have to take these drugs all the time..Do you think you can stay in a marriage, that drugs are controlling your wife’s emotions..This My Friend is something your going to have to decide on your own..I wish you luck and a early contrat on you baby waiting to be born..
Your Friend,
poppy1