Comments on: Love? Happiness? I had it all once…will I ever again?

By: Cyclist 2300

Cyclist 2300 — Sun, 27 Sep 2009 16:08:13 +0000

and what…. prey tell…. does this have to do with marriage and divorce?

get some counseling.

By: Essence

Essence — Sun, 27 Sep 2009 16:08:13 +0000

iam a woman and to be honest women are worse than men..but yea you will find happiness mabe not as fast as u like but it will happen and please don’t rush it take ur time enjoy u and be live me it will happen just not when u want it to happen

By: john_paul32177

john_paul32177 — Sun, 27 Sep 2009 16:08:13 +0000

before you are able to get someone, you will have to work on yourself. build your confidence and self esteem, and work on your attitude. i had my second and best shot in my 40’s

By: ~Ronyea Q♪

~Ronyea Q♪ — Sun, 27 Sep 2009 16:08:13 +0000

I think you are pitting yourself, If it really has been 8 years you need to move on. There are wonderful people out there you just have to put yourself out there to find happiness and you won’t do that if you dwell in your last relationship. One thing I can tell you is do NOT let your past relationship affect your future ones because you are only hurting yourself and the new person in your life if you are holding on to past feelings and making your new person in your life suffer because you got hurt before. I went through being the new person and I was always being told that my ex didn’t trust me because his last girlfriend broke his heart and I just could never live up to her and so after 10 years I left him now he tells me that I was the best thing that ever happened and he doesn’t want me to go but it was already too late at that point.

By: daljack -a girl

daljack -a girl — Sun, 27 Sep 2009 16:08:13 +0000

Get some personal counseling to help you deal with all of this.

You’ll be doing yourself a big favor and whoever the woman who you’re involved with next.