Comments on: Why Can’t I Get Over My Married Lover? http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1581/why-cant-i-get-over-my-married-lover/ Your guide to getting your ex lover back into your arms Tue, 16 Mar 2010 20:11:21 +0100 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: chunsah http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1581/why-cant-i-get-over-my-married-lover/comment-page-1/#comment-8457 chunsah Sun, 01 Nov 2009 16:17:09 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1581/why-cant-i-get-over-my-married-lover/#comment-8457 I'm seeing a married man as well. But he told me from the beginning that he could never leave his wife, although he's no longer in love with her. It was hard at times in the beginning, but once I really starting accepting that I could never really be with him legitimately, my feelings, or the intensity of such, starting waning. I still love him deeply, though, and that won't go away for a long while. It seems, for now, that no one can compare; but I don't NEED to be with him. We still see each other occasionally, but I'm looking to date others, even if it's not for love. Also, I'm looking to relocate as I am so over the area I live in now, and some physical distance between us would be so good for me. Good luck. Once you truly start to accept that this man is not yours to have, life will slowly start opening up new possibilities for you. Hopefully, ones that are healthier and offer more promise. I'm so sorry you're going through this. I know it can be very difficult and heartwrenching. But remember, if a man really wanted to be with you, nothing would stop him. Really. And that doesn't make you any less lovable. You're not a bad person. This is just unhealthy bad behavior that serves you no good. I’m seeing a married man as well. But he told me from the beginning that he could never leave his wife, although he’s no longer in love with her. It was hard at times in the beginning, but once I really starting accepting that I could never really be with him legitimately, my feelings, or the intensity of such, starting waning. I still love him deeply, though, and that won’t go away for a long while. It seems, for now, that no one can compare; but I don’t NEED to be with him. We still see each other occasionally, but I’m looking to date others, even if it’s not for love. Also, I’m looking to relocate as I am so over the area I live in now, and some physical distance between us would be so good for me.
Good luck. Once you truly start to accept that this man is not yours to have, life will slowly start opening up new possibilities for you. Hopefully, ones that are healthier and offer more promise. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I know it can be very difficult and heartwrenching. But remember, if a man really wanted to be with you, nothing would stop him. Really. And that doesn’t make you any less lovable. You’re not a bad person. This is just unhealthy bad behavior that serves you no good.

]]> By: saxy http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1581/why-cant-i-get-over-my-married-lover/comment-page-1/#comment-5846 saxy Sun, 27 Sep 2009 20:57:05 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1581/why-cant-i-get-over-my-married-lover/#comment-5846 he loved the excitement that came with that affair, im sorry but if he loved u he would have been with u now he loved the excitement that came with that affair, im sorry but if he loved u he would have been with u now

]]> By: Jaymie L http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1581/why-cant-i-get-over-my-married-lover/comment-page-1/#comment-5847 Jaymie L Sun, 27 Sep 2009 20:57:05 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1581/why-cant-i-get-over-my-married-lover/#comment-5847 The reason that he is not answering your calls is because he is married and in love with his wife, and has told you not to call him. You are feeling lonely and upset about your relationship with your own significant other. In my opinion you need to go to counseling together and find out what happened to the love that you both shared. And get over Mr. Wrong. Hes married, end of story. The reason that he is not answering your calls is because he is married and in love with his wife, and has told you not to call him.

You are feeling lonely and upset about your relationship with your own significant other.

In my opinion you need to go to counseling together and find out what happened to the love that you both shared.
And get over Mr. Wrong. Hes married, end of story.

]]> By: marypoppins http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1581/why-cant-i-get-over-my-married-lover/comment-page-1/#comment-5848 marypoppins Sun, 27 Sep 2009 20:57:05 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1581/why-cant-i-get-over-my-married-lover/#comment-5848 cause you're a loser that has relationshp issues. seek counseling. ps. HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU. HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU. HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU. HE LOVES HIS WIFE AND DOES NOT WANT TO GIVE HER UP FOR YOU. ACCEPT THIS. ACCEPT THIS. MOVE ON. MOVE ON. sheesh. get it yet or should i keep on w/ the CAPS? cause you’re a loser that has relationshp issues. seek counseling.

ps. HE DOESN’T LOVE YOU. HE DOESN’T LOVE YOU. HE DOESN’T LOVE YOU.

HE LOVES HIS WIFE AND DOES NOT WANT TO GIVE HER UP FOR YOU.

ACCEPT THIS.

ACCEPT THIS.

MOVE ON.

MOVE ON.

sheesh.

get it yet or should i keep on w/ the CAPS?

]]> By: mrs_g2 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1581/why-cant-i-get-over-my-married-lover/comment-page-1/#comment-5849 mrs_g2 Sun, 27 Sep 2009 20:57:05 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1581/why-cant-i-get-over-my-married-lover/#comment-5849 If you don't let him alone, they're going to put a restraining order on you! Honestly, you sound like a real bunny-boiler. If you don’t let him alone, they’re going to put a restraining order on you! Honestly, you sound like a real bunny-boiler.

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