Comments on: I am desperate to save my marriage, My 5 year old son needs both Mommy and Daddy? http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1589/i-am-desperate-to-save-my-marriage-my-5-year-old-son-needs-both-mommy-and-daddy/ Sat, 11 Feb 2012 14:09:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: trollicus http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1589/i-am-desperate-to-save-my-marriage-my-5-year-old-son-needs-both-mommy-and-daddy/comment-page-1/#comment-5940 trollicus Mon, 28 Sep 2009 12:00:53 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1589/i-am-desperate-to-save-my-marriage-my-5-year-old-son-needs-both-mommy-and-daddy/#comment-5940 I think you have expressed quite clearly the situation many divorced men are left in. All I can say is your not alone and it could be worse, much worse. Many women use divorce and children as a means of revenge on there ex.(hell hath no fury) I feel for you, try to keep you chin up. Many men when faced with the loss of their family due to no fault of there own become depressed and the already high rate of male suicide doubles after divorce. I think you have expressed quite clearly the situation many divorced men are left in. All I can say is your not alone and it could be worse, much worse.

Many women use divorce and children as a means of revenge on there ex.(hell hath no fury)

I feel for you, try to keep you chin up. Many men when faced with the loss of their family due to no fault of there own become depressed and the already high rate of male suicide doubles after divorce.

]]> By: Jordan M http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1589/i-am-desperate-to-save-my-marriage-my-5-year-old-son-needs-both-mommy-and-daddy/comment-page-1/#comment-5941 Jordan M Mon, 28 Sep 2009 12:00:53 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1589/i-am-desperate-to-save-my-marriage-my-5-year-old-son-needs-both-mommy-and-daddy/#comment-5941 Unless your wife is just plain mental, there is more to this story. You need to have someone else sit in on the dialog between you and your wife to see if the situation can be put into perspective. You both have to want to make it work. Can her mother act as a mediator? Unless your wife is just plain mental, there is more to this story. You need to have someone else sit in on the dialog between you and your wife to see if the situation can be put into perspective. You both have to want to make it work. Can her mother act as a mediator?

]]> By: georgie's girl http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1589/i-am-desperate-to-save-my-marriage-my-5-year-old-son-needs-both-mommy-and-daddy/comment-page-1/#comment-5942 georgie's girl Mon, 28 Sep 2009 12:00:53 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1589/i-am-desperate-to-save-my-marriage-my-5-year-old-son-needs-both-mommy-and-daddy/#comment-5942 right now you and your wife don't need to be together. your relationship is very unhealthy and if your son is 5 he is very aware of what is going on. i don't really understand why you want to be with her right now. she seems pretty selfish and vendictive. because who would take their child to a shelter when it was not needed? there is no rule that says if you get divorced that she has to have custody. so start the divorce and ask for custody of your son. or joint custody at the very least. then she can't move to another country. it doesn't sound like she is emotionally stable right now anyway, and it may be better if your son is with you. and kids don't "need" a mom and dad if they are in an unhealthy relationship. and he would still have both parents you just wouldn't live together. so before she takes off again you need to get some kind of custody order. write down the things she says, the times she refuses to let you see your son, write down everything so that she can't try to lie about you if you do end up getting divorced. right now you and your wife don’t need to be together. your relationship is very unhealthy and if your son is 5 he is very aware of what is going on. i don’t really understand why you want to be with her right now. she seems pretty selfish and vendictive. because who would take their child to a shelter when it was not needed?

there is no rule that says if you get divorced that she has to have custody. so start the divorce and ask for custody of your son. or joint custody at the very least. then she can’t move to another country. it doesn’t sound like she is emotionally stable right now anyway, and it may be better if your son is with you. and kids don’t "need" a mom and dad if they are in an unhealthy relationship. and he would still have both parents you just wouldn’t live together.

so before she takes off again you need to get some kind of custody order. write down the things she says, the times she refuses to let you see your son, write down everything so that she can’t try to lie about you if you do end up getting divorced.

]]> By: Kim B http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1589/i-am-desperate-to-save-my-marriage-my-5-year-old-son-needs-both-mommy-and-daddy/comment-page-1/#comment-5943 Kim B Mon, 28 Sep 2009 12:00:53 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1589/i-am-desperate-to-save-my-marriage-my-5-year-old-son-needs-both-mommy-and-daddy/#comment-5943 sorry to ask, but have you considered that she may be cheating on you? sorry to ask, but have you considered that she may be cheating on you?

]]> By: Tillie http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1589/i-am-desperate-to-save-my-marriage-my-5-year-old-son-needs-both-mommy-and-daddy/comment-page-1/#comment-5944 Tillie Mon, 28 Sep 2009 12:00:53 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1589/i-am-desperate-to-save-my-marriage-my-5-year-old-son-needs-both-mommy-and-daddy/#comment-5944 she sounds like a horrible woman and you need to move on from her. I know that you love your son, however you cant go on like this, can you? See your son whenever possible, keep trying to call and talk to him and send him letters. Hopefully either she will come around, or if she doesnt then when he is old enough hopefully he will come looking for you. good luck she sounds like a horrible woman and you need to move on from her.
I know that you love your son, however you cant go on like this, can you?

See your son whenever possible, keep trying to call and talk to him and send him letters. Hopefully either she will come around, or if she doesnt then when he is old enough hopefully he will come looking for you.

good luck

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