Comments on: I’m in my 20’s but I feel really bad about leaving my mother, please read.? http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1603/im-in-my-20s-but-i-feel-really-bad-about-leaving-my-mother-please-read/ Your guide to getting your ex lover back into your arms Sun, 14 Mar 2010 14:33:51 +0100 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: 2Westies http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1603/im-in-my-20s-but-i-feel-really-bad-about-leaving-my-mother-please-read/comment-page-1/#comment-6034 2Westies Tue, 29 Sep 2009 16:51:16 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1603/im-in-my-20s-but-i-feel-really-bad-about-leaving-my-mother-please-read/#comment-6034 Unfortunately we can't "fix" a parent's problems (I've been there). You've obviously been through all the options to help your mother (her moving with you) and none work. You may be surprised to find out after you've left that your mother is doing just fine. Go to your husband and be happy, you're mother's failures are her own. I'm coming from experience here with my mother. Good Luck. Unfortunately we can’t "fix" a parent’s problems (I’ve been there). You’ve obviously been through all the options to help your mother (her moving with you) and none work. You may be surprised to find out after you’ve left that your mother is doing just fine. Go to your husband and be happy, you’re mother’s failures are her own. I’m coming from experience here with my mother. Good Luck.

]]> By: Tom L http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1603/im-in-my-20s-but-i-feel-really-bad-about-leaving-my-mother-please-read/comment-page-1/#comment-6035 Tom L Tue, 29 Sep 2009 16:51:16 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1603/im-in-my-20s-but-i-feel-really-bad-about-leaving-my-mother-please-read/#comment-6035 you need to report to family service. I seen this type of family problem and someone get kill. I think you should stay with your mom and let your husband know why. if he's the understand type of person, he should be supporting you. you need to report to family service. I seen this type of family problem and someone get kill. I think you should stay with your mom and let your husband know why. if he’s the understand type of person, he should be supporting you.

]]> By: ganpathyy http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1603/im-in-my-20s-but-i-feel-really-bad-about-leaving-my-mother-please-read/comment-page-1/#comment-6036 ganpathyy Tue, 29 Sep 2009 16:51:16 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1603/im-in-my-20s-but-i-feel-really-bad-about-leaving-my-mother-please-read/#comment-6036 i can undertand what you are going through. but there isn't much you can do. as your mom is hell bent on staying in her own house. otherwise things would have been easy. i think she will cope with the situation. initially there will be a vaccum as you are not there . but she will manage. dont worry. i can undertand what you are going through. but there isn’t much you can do. as your mom is hell bent on staying in her own house. otherwise things would have been easy.

i think she will cope with the situation. initially there will be a vaccum as you are not there . but she will manage. dont worry.

]]> By: fi ♠ http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1603/im-in-my-20s-but-i-feel-really-bad-about-leaving-my-mother-please-read/comment-page-1/#comment-6037 fi ♠ Tue, 29 Sep 2009 16:51:16 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1603/im-in-my-20s-but-i-feel-really-bad-about-leaving-my-mother-please-read/#comment-6037 hmmmmmmm you do know that you cannot help someone who wont help themselves dont you? your mother has several options available to her and yet she wont take any of them, consider them, or even attemp to make things better for herself she is using you as an emotional crutch, and whilst family should help each other, YOU are the only one chasing round here sometimes, you just have to let go a little, and you going away is the chance for your mother to improve things for herself, i dont doubt when you go she will go downhill a little, we are all entitled to wallow a bit, but, then its up to her whether its make or break time you can lead a horse to water, but you cant make them drink you have a long life ahead of you and you cannot live it in your mothers shadow, its time for you to make a life of your own now, you can still be a friend and daughter to her, but you both need to live your own lives now good luck hmmmmmmm

you do know that you cannot help someone who wont help themselves dont you?
your mother has several options available to her and yet she wont take any of them, consider them, or even attemp to make things better for herself
she is using you as an emotional crutch, and whilst family should help each other, YOU are the only one chasing round here
sometimes, you just have to let go a little, and you going away is the chance for your mother to improve things for herself, i dont doubt when you go she will go downhill a little, we are all entitled to wallow a bit, but, then its up to her whether its make or break time
you can lead a horse to water, but you cant make them drink

you have a long life ahead of you and you cannot live it in your mothers shadow, its time for you to make a life of your own now, you can still be a friend and daughter to her, but you both need to live your own lives now

good luck

]]> By: LLCoolP http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1603/im-in-my-20s-but-i-feel-really-bad-about-leaving-my-mother-please-read/comment-page-1/#comment-6038 LLCoolP Tue, 29 Sep 2009 16:51:16 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1603/im-in-my-20s-but-i-feel-really-bad-about-leaving-my-mother-please-read/#comment-6038 I can't give too much advice here, but all I know is that you really need to live your life for yourself! Your mother chose her own path in life, and it is not up to you to solve her problems. All you can do is learn from her mistakes and make a better life for yourself. I can’t give too much advice here, but all I know is that you really need to live your life for yourself! Your mother chose her own path in life, and it is not up to you to solve her problems. All you can do is learn from her mistakes and make a better life for yourself.

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